I’m actually fucking done
I’m still a minor yet I’m addicted porn, im still young and I should be happy and full of life, not fucking masturbating in my room and doing nothing and rotting away while I watch other people mating
I got a gf and we’re together for 3 months now and she’s literally been perfect, she changed the way I think abt everything and now I feel happy with her, and a thing abt her is that she hates porn, and I’m sure if she knew that I’m still as addicted she’ll be mad at me, I’m doing it for myself and also to her
I don’t wanna talk too much but I’m just saying that I’m never touching myself again nor am I watching porn and I swear on my soul that I’ll stop
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I’m engaged with my fiancé and I ask him not to watch it. He hasn’t watched it in months, but I think it really helps our relationship and it’s a lot better to not watch it.
Good for you. Porn addiction is the worst
Man, you’ll be back before you know it… too much of anything is bad. Learn to balance your life and you will be the happiest human alive (from your perspective)
I would suggest you to take professional help in this regard. I know someone who can help you really well
are you high?
It does terrible things to the brain. Please get therapy from it. This will help you.
Channel that energy into human connections. You’ll thank you.
I quit porn for a month. Nothing changed.
All these magical powers after quitting are just placebo things.
The only thing is a saving time for something better.
You are not done with porn.
Here is the thing my dear friend, I was in the same situation and I am pretty sure most guys have gone through it. Words can’t really describe it but some sort of Gods miracle is the only thing that can destroy this addiction. It’s not discipline it’s not motivation it’s Gods grace that takes it away. I know I might get downvotes to what I’m about to say but on of this days you’ll find yourself in the same spot you were before but the key is when you’re in that spot remember this… it’s okay! The devil what’s you to feel guilty, it’s not just the act of wanking to porn that he is after, he’s after the “fuck I’m so weak, I had a 2 weeks streak and now I’m back into this shit fuck man I’m disgusted, I’m disgrace to stand in front of God” just pray dude, I know you’ve heard this multiple times but trust me my friend we human beings are soo weak to fight this shit trust me man, just pray have faith and still just do it again without feeling guilty. At some point that prayer will be heard and without even you noticing it, you’ll genuinely lose your interest to lust. Good luck and don’t be hard on yourself 👍🏾
Well I didn‘t watch any porn in the last 10 months and I don‘t feel any urge anymore to do so.
If you are really committed to it than it won‘t be that hard in my opinion.
Basically the same with stop smoking or stop with weed. Been trough all and I can tell you as long as you don‘t have a physical need for it (I am not talking about a little bit of shiver or a feeling you want some right now) you will manage to do it and also stay away from it long term.
When your body is acting up in pain for example when you got an opium addiction than it is a different story and you will need some professional help but other than that almost 99% is done in your head and by your mindset.
So if you are strong enough and really want it than you will make it.
Furthermore don‘t expect anything to change in the first few weeks or months – it will take some time until you feel benefits but I can tell you that it has started already for me so keep it going.
If you have issues in bed due to the porn you have consumed than I would try Ashwagandha.
Helped me a lot getting back to my old performance and it is 100% natural.
Keep yourself busy man. I stopped porn a long long time ago. I found that whenever I’d stay up late in bed, the urge would hit. It’s when I had nothing to do. Get yourself tired, workout, etc.
If you keep busy and are genuinely tired at the end of the day, you’ll fall asleep and won’t even have the energy to do it. It’s a real struggle and you’ll most likely fall back into it, but I promise it gets better and I’m glad you’re doing it for yourself and her.