I 24f am falling out of love for my 27m boyfriend.
We have been together for 6 years and went through many ups and down. Bur even since we moved to another city we started having big fights and he basically said that I’m not good enough for him, while I was having a very hard time adjusting to the new city and going through an episode of depressio.
I left for few weeks in December but then he contacted me to apologize and begged me to come back so I did.
At first it was great, the sex was great and our communication got better. But suddenly I feel like I lost all my feelings for him. I don’t why exactly but I just have the urge to leave but I also don’t want to hurt his feelings.
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We have been together for 6 years and went through many ups and down. Bur even since we moved to another city we started having big fights and he basically said that I’m not good enough for him, while I was having a very hard time adjusting to the new city and going through an episode of depressio.
I left for few weeks in December but then he contacted me to apologize and begged me to come back so I did.
At first it was great, the sex was great and our communication got better. But suddenly I feel like I lost all my feelings for him. I don’t why exactly but I just have the urge to leave but I also don’t want to hurt his feelings.
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If you are depressed you may not be feeling anything good right now. I would seek treatment for your depression then see how you feel about him and life in general.
Of course you may find out the relationship is the source of your depression, or at least contributing to it, but it may be your depression is affecting your relationship.
You owe it to yourself to have genuine love and respect. Staying with someone you don’t have feelings for is only hurting yourself. Always put yourself first.
Yes, you might hurt his feelings but he’ll cry a river and move on, and so will you.
Also, OP, remember he has hurt you before. If he truly cared, he wouldn’t have acted in ways that hurt you.
Be assertive: tell him you don’t have feelings for him anymore and you don’t want to stay together then let it go
Do you really want to spend another 6 years with someone you don’t even like? There’s probably a better person out there waiting for you. Think of it that way.