I’m getting Bullied and i can’t do anything. Pls tell me smthg.

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So I’m in 2nd year of high school and I’m getting bullied by a group 3-4 guys. I was once staring at my crush they noticed and got to know that she’s my crush through one of my friends. After that they pulled her up with and they just sent me naked pics and her tape of her.. somehow they maybe bullied her too or convinced her and now they even threaten me to do this with my sister if I do anything abt bullying.
I’m concerned about her. And my crush, she doesn’t even talk to me like she used to do.. I’m really depressed.

Comments

  1. imgonnagetyoub4ck Avatar

    You can and NEED to do something about this. What they’ve done is illegal. Tell your parents & report it to the police. Like now.

  2. Golda33 Avatar

    Sweetie you NEED to report that. That’s revenge P(C)orn. That’s ILLEGAL! Please speak to your parents or guardians. I hope and pray that your situation gets better. I’m truly sorry that you are being bullied.

  3. Lilbudtoker69 Avatar

    Don’t give them more power by doing nothing. They are sad, pathetic people who are sad with their lives, so enjoy ruining others too. One day, you will look back and realise how much better in life you’ve done than them simply because of your mindset of acknowledging right from wrong early on in life, and you will pity them. Watch some podcasts on the psychology of bullying and outsmart them in ways that you can, feel sorry for them for not having a better understanding of how to treat and respect others. You are the bigger person and as long as you stay kind you always will be.

  4. carrot_cake1122 Avatar

    Yes that is very illegal please tell your mom and dad. Especially because they are involving your sister and someone that you care about. Those boys could be possibly doing it to others. It has to stop.

  5. Formal_Two_5747 Avatar

    You got to report it to the cops, it’s serious shit. Tell your parents right now.

  6. HotSearingTeens Avatar

    I do agree with talk to the police but i would say first maybe actually speak to the girl as i cant see her being happy abt them spreading pics of her around (or if its fake you’ll find out too).

    Its still illegal either way since im guessing none of you are 18. So even if fake police should still be called.

    Whatever you do, do it quickly.

  7. Vile-goat Avatar

    If you go to the school principals or guidance counselor something will be done for sure.

  8. NoMachine422 Avatar

    girl i am so sorry your going through this you don’t deserve that at all but you NEED to tell someone because not only is what their doing illegal it can also ruin the other girls life and hurt you further, especially if they’re involving your sister. i suggest you tell your parents about this or go to the police and if you feel threatened by them make sure to tell the police that too if it gets any worse and you have the ability to, get a restraining order against them. high school is really shit, i’m in my 4th year and i can’t say it’s any better because people are assholes but if you block the negativity out and focus on yourself it should really help you but it takes time.

  9. GirlOfTabor Avatar

    They got you right where they want you. They threaten you because they are scared of you telling the right ppl whats going on! Sending nudes of a girl alone is a thing that can cost them a lot. So if I would be you,Id change my attitude and tell them..if they ever harm you again, youll inform the school, the girls parents and everyone else who can beat their asses. If they don’t stop immediately..DO IT..

  10. Just_myself_001 Avatar

    nude pics of kids – get your parents to take you to the cop shop preferably with a lawyer, this is child sex abuse and they are threatening your sister, 4 of them = organized , you will have kids of your own before they get out if they survive jail.

    You really should have a lawyer with you as the images are on your phone – dont delete them yet.

    If your family cant afford a lawyer start with children’s services, record all meetings.

  11. LuvsLips Avatar

    Sorry that you are being bullied. Definitely go to your parents and/or law enforcement, explaining everything. You can leave that bit out about you and your crush, if you fear for your and/or her safety.

    Would you please consider clarifying this bit a bit more:

    > After that they pulled her up with and they just sent me naked pics and her tape of her..

  12. gianf Avatar

    I’m sorry for what you are going through. As an adult, I strongly suggest you to:

    – take screenshots of the chats with the pictures they sent you

    – talk to your parents. they should probably meet your crush’s parents

    – report this to the police.

    This is SERIOUS. Don’t get trapped in the threats and manipulation of these bullies.

    Best of luck to you!

  13. TheWaeg Avatar

    Cops; now.

    This isn’t bullying. This is straight up crime. They’ve distributed underage porn and they’re threatening to sexually abuse your sister. You need to do something about this NOW. Tell your parents, tell your teacher, tell your principal, and tell the police.

    This is not normal, even as far as bullying goes.

  14. Big-Champion-8568 Avatar

    Throat punch the biggest one

  15. MicaelPounds Avatar

    Tell your parents and report it to the police, then watch those bullies turn into the cowards that they are.

  16. Flimsy-Finish-5332 Avatar

    Dont fold like a lil bitch unless you are a lil bitch. Get creative I promise you theres something you can do about this I you really want to. If you do go through with it and stand up for yourself and your sis you’ll feel like and become more of a man. Forgot about that lil crush she seems like a hoe lol don’t lie to yourself and give her the benefit of the doubt. You got this lil man. Make real men proud!

  17. KingTotto333 Avatar

    Hey, I just want to say first: I’m really sorry you’re going through this. I’ve been bullied too, and I know how painful and isolating it can feel — like you’re trapped, and no one would believe you even if you spoke up. But please listen to this:

    Silence is what gives bullies their power.
    They rely on your fear. And the longer you stay quiet, the more control they have — not just over you, but over others too.

    What they’re doing isn’t just bullying — it’s a serious crime.
    If you’re all in high school, that likely means you’re all minors — and sharing any kind of naked images of someone your age is considered child pornography, which is illegal. Even possessing those images is a crime. And now they’re threatening you? That takes it to a whole new level of abuse.

    You need to speak up. I know that’s scary — but this is not something you can or should deal with alone. Talk to a trusted adult: a school counselor, a parent, a teacher. If that feels impossible, you can even call a child protection hotline in your country. You deserve safety, and so does your sister and your crush — whoever she is in all of this.

    You’re not weak for being afraid. But you’ll be strong the moment you decide to tell someone. You don’t have to go through this in silence.

    Sending you strength. You’re not alone.

  18. paxilsavedme Avatar

    This is a police situation. Nothing short of.

  19. Ophelias_Muse Avatar

    Everyone here is giving you the right advice. You don’t have to go through any of this alone. Find an adult you trust and start the conversation.

    Things do get better, especially when you have support.

  20. olanzapinequeen Avatar

    Please tell someone because this is completely illegal.

    Those guys can be charged with possession and potentially distributing CSAM (child pornography). Regardless of the age of consent, any sexual material of under 18s is classed as CSAM.

  21. kevlarclay Avatar

    It’s wrong to say you can’t do anything. You have to find the courage to speak out. Be stronger than them and SPEAK OUT. They have to face up to their actions or they’ll think they can get away with anything. When you’re older, you won’t want this to happen to your children… And people will remember you as the hero of the story.

  22. No_Cap_7709 Avatar

    Police , trusted teacher at school your parents . Tell someone !

  23. Intelligent-Elk-9948 Avatar

    You need to tell authorities about the potential“blackmail”

  24. Simple-Carpenter2361 Avatar

    So, shared pictures of a naked underage girl?

    Whoop whoop … report to da police. And watch their life go to shit

  25. janieland1 Avatar

    When I was teenager boys tried to bully me into things like seeing my underwear or trying to look up my skirts, a throat punch was very effective but this was 20 years ago and people were different then, less snitching and more living. Best thing to do today is call the police bc any retaliation can be used against you. High school is a moment in your life, this too shall pass.

  26. MelancholyFlower420 Avatar

    You have the upper hand here my dear, that is not only revenge p*rn, it is CP and very VERY illegal. Get a responsible adult to accompany you in reporting them. Doing things like this could destroy their own lives by being on a nonce register for Distribution of CP even if they are underage themselves. Sounds like they need a scare
    And being a teenager is hard man, I recently looked back on my old text convos from being 15 and from experience I can tell you I know it feels like the end of the world right now but this age range is difficult to be in and you are not alone. Also everything is so much better when you’re an adult and you realise social hierarchies are stupid and you can just override them but at school it really feels impossible. Don’t worry mate, just use this time to support the girl in the pictures if she’s aware of the leak. maybe it’s best not to tell her if she isn’t already aware but If she is aware she probably needs a friend rn and that gives you an opportunity to speak to her. Do not support her though if your only intention is to be with her in the end of the day. you must do it out of integrity and not depending on whether she’ll be with you or not (as that’s a whole other issue in itself)
    Best of luck

  27. Lxrd_Dxrkskin Avatar

    Young man
    Call the police and tell them what you told us

  28. AtlanteanScholar Avatar

    Cops, they distributed underage porn. Do not tell them that you did this, just call them and let the cops handle it.

  29. free2bmanson2 Avatar

    Why do you feel you can’t do anything about it? This is grounds for expulsion and jail time for them

  30. A-namethatsavailable Avatar

    Contact the police. Them having photos and videos of her naked is possession of CP, them sending it is distribution/supply of CP. If they somehow made her do it, that is production of CP. And likely other shit. All of which is illegal, immoral and fucking moronic.

    Report it asap, otherwise you’re part of the problem.

  31. jgamer815 Avatar

    I was heavily bullied by a large portion of my school from kindergarten to 9th grade when I finally moved out of that town and my life was miserable. I wish I had the courage to truly do something about it like you have the opportunity now. You have literal proof of genuine crimes they’re committing. Take the risk and approach your parents or any adult you’re comfortable with. It is the right thing to do and if you do nothing about it, I promise that you will deeply regret it later in life. If you don’t do it for yourself, do it for your crush and your sister. They aren’t just targeting you anymore. They’ve gone too far. Please go seek help.

  32. adr_3963 Avatar

    PS. Change your handle/name on here. Don’t own that s#it for a second. 🤎💯💪🏼

  33. Broken_Realm_Link404 Avatar

    Kneecaps. Sweep the legs. Elbow back spin. God would not be so forgiving of your allowance.

  34. No-Structure8818 Avatar

    Op please report