I feel like I’ve always liked her as something more but always tried to push it away because I feel like it would ruin our friendship and the friend group I’m in but I don’t know. She’s made it clear she likes boys and never gave any hints she likes girls. We hold hands in public and in private give each other kisses on the cheek and said dirty and sweet comments to each other and it’s the same thing I do with other friends but it always feels like sister/best friend love with them but with her I see her as a girlfriend. I’m not sure if I should tell her when she’s moving away or if I should tell her soon. I don’t want to ruin our friendship though, should I try to see if she might be into girls? I don’t know what to do anymore.
I’m in love with my bestfriend
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You should tell her before she moves, even if it’s just to get it off your chest. It’s better than spending forever wondering what if.
Yes you should tell her or else you’re gonna be guilty your whole life it won’t hurt the friendship I’m sure about it all the best
No, don’t tell her – especially if she’s moving away. What purpose will it serve? She’s moving away. And if she doesn’t feel the same way then you’ve probably lost a friend who won’t want to keep in contact with you because you told her you were in live with her. Keep quiet and keep your friend even after she’s moved. Who knows, once the distance sets in you may not feel the same and be thankful that you kept it to yourself.
i still regret not telling my crush my feelings before he moved away in grade 9 i still think about it 6 years later so get it off your chest while you can otherwise you’ll be healing from something u never even got to do
Lowkey sounds like you’re catchin’ real feels. If she’s movin’ soon, maybe drop a playful hint and see her vibe. If she’s not into it, no harm done. If she is? 👀 Worth the risk.
>She’s made it clear she likes boys and never gave any hints she likes girls.
Well there’s your answer. You will only alienate her by admitting your feelings.