It feel like no matter where I go, I don’t make friends. Sure, sometimes its my fault, but most people that know me really like me and say I’m very smart and have a good head on my shoulders. I feel like i shouldn’t complain, as I have a Gf and one or two people i talk to outside of work, but i never go anywhere or get invited to things.
anytime I go to a bar, no one there shares my interests or is near my age, whenever I Buy and play a game, I feel like I’m wasting my time and stop enjoying playing it fast, anytime i join a Discord its just filled with gooners and toxic A-Holes, if it doesn’t get eventually hacked. I’ve gone up to random people who look my age to chat (that’s how I met my Gf actually) but it always ends the same; they ask for my social media, I tell them I don’t have one (Bad experiences, I hate almost all social media now) then they either walk off or give me their number to ghost me. I’m very tired and am close to giving up to settle in a cycle of work, hobby eat, sleep, repeat.
Edit: I messed up the title, I know…
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You’re definitely not alone on this one. I’m in an identical situation, though I’m a student instead of working. I’m deep within that cycle of waking up, school, homework, eat, and sleep. I just want you to know that we are two among the hundreds of thousands out there in this position. There’s no shame, only opportunity to get out there and learn more about the world and yourself.