Lately, I’ve realized that I have a tendency to spend money on others, whether it’s paying for friends, family, or anyone who needs it, even though I’m not in the best financial situation myself. I’m a freshman in college, and I can barely afford rent. I also have this habit of giving away clothes to friends when they compliment or express interest in them. This has been a pattern for me all my life, and I’m struggling to find a way to stop. Any advice?
I’m really bad with giving away money and my things
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I would just advise you to save your money and cut down on the spending. You just like to provide for people but you have to put yourself first. Think about if it was reversed do you think they’ll pay for you all the time too?
They’re gas lighting you and consider you a bank
So if you want to be considered or bank or ATM keep at it when you’re empty they’ll no longer find you valuable