me, 20m and my now girlfriend, 20f have been dating for a year now but lately she almost never calls me, leaves me on delivered for a few hours and when she does read my messages, she just leaves them on open, it takes an effort to even get her attention now and it’s become a bit draining, i should also mention that i have bipolar, and she’s telling me she’s been going through stuff lately and she hasn’t had time to text even though i see her interacting everyday on posts on social media and i always see her online for a couple hours without even interacting with me
tl;dr, I’m pretty worried for my relationship and i don’t want to lose her at all
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Just block her on socials – you’re working yourself up emotionally and mentally by seeing her activity.
Then just stop initiating contact with her, give it three days. Once she’s ignored you for three whole days, you know that you’re the only person in the relationship and you block her and move on.
Focus on yourself, your studies, your growth and development, your fitness and all things that are necessary to make YOU feel well and don’t think about this as a loss. It’s a lesson.
u need to stop texting first and see how long it will take her to notice and reach out first ..