Hi THT! I have a story for you! I feel like I need to get this off my chest because I am so confused and don’t know what to do so I need to see what you think
I, 31 female, and my husband, 32 male, got the most weirdest message from my best friend’s, 31 Female (let’s call her Raquel), boyfriend, 32 male. He randomly messaged my husband asking what time my husband will pick up Raquel(they live in Florida and we live in Pa). My husband was very confused because she’s not with us. He responded go “I’m picking Raquel up from the airport?” And he was like yeah she said she’s staying with you guys for the weekend” my husband thought he was joking around so he went along with it until my bffs boyfriend (let’s call him Calvin) went off on my husband saying he was lying and that he can’t believe he dropped so much money for our wedding to be special last year because my bestfriend was my MOH. Long story short my husband and I told her bf she is not with us at all. He then puts two and two together and thinks that she is cheating on him after 16 years together and that she’s with a guy from Pa. I started to freak out bc she did not tell me she was coming so I tried to contact her and she was not responding so in my mind I’m thinking she’s MIA. She then texts me and tells me she’s fine but doesn’t tell me where she’s at. This was all Tuesday night. It is now Thursday night and I have yet to hear from her and him. The only response I got from him was she’s home and she’s fine but nothing else. What should I do? Do I let her cool off a few days and ask what happen because she basically used us as a cover up without explanation or do I let her come to me. I am just confused and shocked because we have been bestfriends since third grade and I never thought she would do this to us. I will add that her boyfriend was very drunk during all of this and going in circles with his story.
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Backup of the post’s body: Hi THT! I have a story for you! I feel like I need to get this off my chest because I am so confused and don’t know what to do so I need to see what you think
I, 31 female, and my husband, 32 male, got the most weirdest message from my best friend’s, 31 Female (let’s call her Raquel), boyfriend, 32 male. He randomly messaged my husband asking what time my husband will pick up Raquel(they live in Florida and we live in Pa). My husband was very confused because she’s not with us. He responded go “I’m picking Raquel up from the airport?” And he was like yeah she said she’s staying with you guys for the weekend” my husband thought he was joking around so he went along with it until my bffs boyfriend (let’s call him Calvin) went off on my husband saying he was lying and that he can’t believe he dropped so much money for our wedding to be special last year because my bestfriend was my MOH. Long story short my husband and I told her bf she is not with us at all. He then puts two and two together and thinks that she is cheating on him after 16 years together and that she’s with a guy from Pa. I started to freak out bc she did not tell me she was coming so I tried to contact her and she was not responding so in my mind I’m thinking she’s MIA. She then texts me and tells me she’s fine but doesn’t tell me where she’s at. This was all Tuesday night. It is now Thursday night and I have yet to hear from her and him. The only response I got from him was she’s home and she’s fine but nothing else. What should I do? Do I let her cool off a few days and ask what happen because she basically used us as a cover up without explanation or do I let her come to me. I am just confused and shocked because we have been bestfriends since third grade and I never thought she would do this to us. I will add that her boyfriend was very drunk during all of this and going in circles with his story.
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I’d call her to hear her voice and to check in. I only say that because I watch far too much Dateline and 20/20. After you know for a fact that she’s fine, I’d let her come to you, although I’d be dying to know what is going on.
Definitely get your answers. She used you to cover up whatever she may have been doing. My anxiety could never. Especially cause she didn’t answer you for a while.