I’m so confused right now… 😭

r/

Alright, so me (23F) and my boyfriend (25M) have been dating for 4 months and we are doing well but then a day ago when me and my friend (who is a boy) are planning for a writing contest, my stomach then felt upset so I went to the bathroom real quick but when I came out, my boyfriend is on the floor with a bruise on his left cheek and said “it’s okay it doesn’t hurt, he didn’t mean it” to me after that he looked at my friend who has a curious face while he was pointing at himself.

So I asked my friend to leave first so that I can treat my bf’s bruise and when I was treating him, I asked what happened but he ignored my question instead he just asked “what should we eat tonight?” and then yesterday I asked my friend about what happened and he said that he doesn’t know either, he was just busy working with our project. 😭

I finally asked my bf again today on what really happened that day and he said “don’t worry it doesn’t hurt anymore, don’t blame [my friend’s name], it’s my fault for bothering your work” I DON’T KNOW WHO TO BELIEVE AT THIS POINT. πŸ™πŸ˜­ I want to ask if you guys know what is going on because this has been bothering me a lot. 😭😭 TL;DR

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  1. Aldetha Avatar

    This is insane πŸ™„

    It doesn’t matter what actually happened in that room. Your bf refusing to tell you is all the red flag you need.

    Have you even spoken to your friend and asked him what happened? If not, you’re a bad friend too.