So me (17M) and my girlfriend (16F) have been in a relationship for about a month now and we are semi long distance as i live about an hour and a half away ive gone and met up with her 2 times now, we met online and then we just fell in love with each other and i love her so much.
But my girlfriend who is into older guys( since before we started dating ) used to sneak out and hook up with this older guy (19M) every so often and i know this because she told me, i thought this stopped after we started dating but she just told me she might sneak out tonight and i asked why and asked if she was gonna meet this guy and she said yes, she has been kidnapped before when she snuck out once and was forced to do it with a guy who was coving her eyes, now im a little worried about her sneaking out but im more uncomfotable with her going and hooking up with this guy as to me thats like cheating as i didnt think we were in a relationship like that and im not sure whether or not to confront her about it, i also am just worried about her going and meeting him in the first pace since she has been kidnapped before. I need help with this as i dont want it to ruin our relationship but i dont want to confront her and run the chance of that ruining our relationship, can someone please help me?
**TL;DR; : my girl occationally hooks up wiht a guy and im unconfortable about it and dont know whether or not to confront her about it as i dont want it to ruin our relationship, can you help me?**.
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Dude she’s cheating on you. Just let her go
If you’re not okay with her sleeping with other people while you’re in a relationship, you’re allowed to voice that to her. A healthy relationship is one built on trust and communication, talk to her.
I suspect she’ll go anyway and you should break up with her at that point.
16 year old with a 19 year old… wtf