If your partner loves you too much and wants to marry you, he does everything to make you happy, does the majority of the house chores and is very good to live with, responsible, able to provide you can count on him in case of problems …
Sexually he does everything starting from massaging to eating you as much as you want and eats you’re a**… no need for more details, the only thing that is missing is his erection.
How will you deal with is, Accept it
In your opinion what should a man do to please you and make you happy beside the ED
TL;DR is it possible to accept a partner with ED
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They make pills for that now, I think?
That sounds amazing ngl. I’m bisexual, and women don’t usually have penises but you can still have amazing sex with them. I don’t see why this would even be a problem unless it’s something that makes him unhappy
Viagra, cialis, there’s a new cream. Try em all
I think this is really individualized to the person and the situation. Some women (though certainly not all or maybe even most) would feel their sex life was lacking if PinV intercourse was not a regular part of it. I think a big part of it would be the openness of both parties, comfort talking about sex, comfort with trying new things, etc. Also the person with EDs feelings about their ED and how that plays out through their sex life (and general relationship).
For some people it would absolutely be a deal breaker and that’s okay, but for lots of people it wouldn’t be, depending on how much it defined the relationship and sex.
Depends, has he gone to the doctor, is medication out of the question and does he use porn and jerk off?
The answer to those questions determines my answer. If you can beat off and you haven’t seen a doctor, I’m gone.
I tried this and it was fine until I wasn’t. And when it wasn’t, I started basically going insane.
Part of it was the way his ED made him feel about himself. He spent a lot of time beating himself up for being a loser and failure. If he didn’t do that, it maybe would have been fine. Maybe.
I mean, plenty of us manage to live without PIV.
Depends – is he doing anything to address the ED? Is he going to the doc? Getting hormones checked? Getting that blue pill? Getting therapy? Or is he just coasting and ignoring things?
Is there a reason behind the ED? Trauma? Porn addiction? No longer sexually attracted to me?
ED happens, but depending on the why will depend on whether I’d stay in the relationship or not. If it’s porn induced or because my SO lost attraction, no thanks – I did that once before and never again. If my SO has ED but won’t see a doctor for his legitimate health concern, nah fam. If I have to go see the doctor because perimenopause sucks, then he needs to be a big boy and see the doctor too. Especially since ED can be an indicator of heart issues and other underlying health issues.
If it’s trauma-based, is he doing anything to are the trauma in therapy?
Easily corrected these days
Penis pump has been used for E.D. treatment for years.
There’s plenty of pills as well. Can even get them online from places like Ro men’s health .
Tell him everything you wrote, but would love for him to seek treatment, so you can both experience more.