I’m in a 2 yr relationship , we already broke up once and reconciled after 5-6months. She is very inconsistent. Sometimes makes me feel very loved sometimes trash and she constantly keeps telling me she doubts if this is love for her or she is just attached to me and pulls herself away from romantic convos and flirts. I wanna get rid this cycle and looking for a breakup but i’m afraid to lose her. like clearly she isnt meeting any of my needs be it emotional , mental , physical none and I dont even know why im with her. Im afraid to say I love you to her because Ik she wont reply back to me on this , I text her on my own all time.
Maybe im afraid of the move on stage because i went thru it once and its super tough and also the dreams I had with her about our future.
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shit or get off the pot.
you can’t have both, they’re mutually exclusive. so you have to choose, one or the other. make your decision, then stand by it.
either break up, or work together with her, as a team, as partners, to improve your relationship. it’s one or the other, and you have to make a choice.
I would suggest growing a pair.
Nobody likes breaking up but it sounds like both of you have some things to figure out.
move on. Save yourself prolonging the pain
Are you afraid to lose HER or you’re afraid of being single?
Because going by your feelings in this, it doesn’t seem like it’s actually her.
Two years and it sounds like she’s still playing games with your emotions. Is this something you potentially want to do THE REST OF YOUR LIFE? Probably not. Someone you spend your life with should NEVER make you feel like trash or have you question if they love you as much as you love them. You have your answer. Just end it.
Been there bro. You got to end it. It will suck for a while, but in the long run you’ll be glad you did
You’re honestly describing a lot of people in relationships who don’t wanna break up simply cuz they don’t wanna be alone
Just break up with her man. Learn from it. Then take ur time finding the one.
The reason I don’t wanna breakup isn’t because I don’t wanna be alone or single but rather it’s the future planning we did together , its the happy moments we spent together will all seem to go in waste if I do. I feel stuck not knowing what should I do because yes I love her a lot still. I was a casual dating guy and had 4-5 casual relationships before but this girl I don’t know I fell in love with her and saw my future with her