I noticed that you can’t really offend a man when you want to. Most insults men use are targeted to women like mother, sister, wife, or at people whose behavior is associated with being feminine like being a gay man (a bottom to be exact, because its very manly to do men when you are topping). There is no bigger insult to a man than to call him a woman. And also even most insulting word are associated with women: s word, b word, w word, c word, f word etc.

The only word I can think of is di ck, but men rarely use this to INSULT another man, they will say something about his mother instead. And I hear other insults far more often than di ck.

And also insulting women as a joke is so normalized it’s insane, like “your mama” “”jokes”” or “what did you do yesterday? Your wife” type of shit, disgusting.

What are your thoughts on this? I personally don’t say those words and I don’t want to. I’m deeply disappointed but not surprised about this stuff