What should I do? I’ve been dating this guy for 10 months. In the beginning we didn’t expect to like each other or see a future so it was all fun and games at the time and of course sex was involved. Things got serious quick and I realized he had things he needed to sort out before we moved further so we took a break. After the break we rekindled things and it’s been amazing… however we’re struggling with intimacy and sex. We’ve had multiple conversations about it and he’s been reassuring and kind but nothing has changed. The last conversation we had he told me to initiate but it makes me uncomfortable because he has a past with overly aggressive women and I don’t want him to fall into unhealthy patterns.
I think we both aren’t use to initiating sex and we’ve created this situation where it’s awkward and uncomfortable. I don’t know how to navigate it, it’s been four months without any type of physical intimacy. I don’t want to keep bringing up the same conversation but I’m so in love and going crazy trying not to jump his bones.
tl;dr my boyfriend won’t freak my shit and I’m going crazy. What should I do?