Hello. I can’t tell if I’m overreacting so I decided to come to reddit to ask.
I [F21] have been dating my boyfriend [M22] for 2 years now and he is a huge mommas boy. I liked it at first, because he knows how to respect women as a result, but I am coming to hate it.
Right off the bat, his mom kisses him (and his brother who is M21) on the lips. I do not do that in my family so I find it weird. She will also cuddle him in his bed and he will sometimes be in his underwear so I find that veryyyy weird and uncomfortable.
She constantly refers to him as the perfect son, then just absolutely shits on his brother. She says he’s her absolute favorite person in the world (not her husband?…). She also calls my bf beautiful (ex: “I miss your beautiful face”)
In addition, she has my bf give her foot rubs sometimes, which makes me extremely angry. I think it’s very weird and inappropriate to put my bf in that position. She’s asked me if he gives me foot rubs and said he doesn’t do them much anymore for her (um he shouldn’t, he’s a grown man).
I want to talk to my bf about these things that he finds to be normal, but don’t know if I’m being dramatic. My family is not touchy or physically affectionate so I’m not used to it. He’s super close with his mom and I don’t want to upset him but I can’t keep it in much longer. I’m such an open book with him but this is a topic I tread veryyy lightly on.
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