It has been quite a frustrating and tough time dating. I found it very difficult to find a partner who is interested in dating me. I have tried everything, called approaching random women on the streets, using dating apps, going to all sorts of events and meet ups, Going on Snapchat quick ad, following random girls on Instagram, improving my style, taking professional pictures, using every dating app is up there and I am not able to find someone. I’ also hit gym and I’m in shape with abs, I’m 5ft7 btw
Lately I’ve been thinking of finding an escort and just cuddling with her and just doing romantic stuff cause it feels like it’s a lot easier than having to deal with all this struggle of dating in 2025. Is this a good idea or the wrong? I’ve been doing this for years at this point
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Life is short, do what makes you happy. To be the devil’s advocate, it can be unfulfilling in the long run.
There’s nothing ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ about it.
i do not think it is a bad idea. they offer all kinds of services
If you want to hire an escort, weigh the possible consequences, and make a decision.
I don’t think it’s reasonable to suspect that you’re only going to cuddle. That’s fine, but you need to be honest with yourself. If you go in under a misconception, you’re likely not to feel very good about yourself afterward.
There is a service where you can have someone come cuddle you. There are some escorts who specialize in “the girlfriend experience” who would be more open and friendly with your request.
If you want to do that then do it but respect her and ask her for insight into how to grow and navigate it romance.
Set boundaries immediately. You need emotional support and maybe some honesty and criticism first. Ask her to be real with you and explain what’s going on.
Do not sleep with her. Set no sex stuff as a boundary you need a hug. Ask her if she can take you out and show you a good time outside of sex work and help you feel comfortable with yourself around a woman you can hold hands with.
Use the experiences to work towards feeling ready to date again. Ask for her honesty
It’s one of the services they offer and you would be surprised how often it’s taken up.
BUT you need to have a think about what would happen if you develop feelings for this person you’re cuddling and being romantic with. If you can be objective and break it off then it all should be fine
Yup
I have little experience in this area, but would think an escort would accept payment for cuddling. They may draw the line at washing windows and cleaning your toilets, but cuddling is more in the genre of what they offer, I would think.
I’m not trying to be rude, but have you considered it might be your personality or how you speak to women?
If you take care of yourself girls working hardware stores( they are looking for a hunk many times but I’m married so couldn’t take any out for date!!
Next want to find nice girls… find a church. Go a few times, often they have single clubs and you can smoosh a girl that might be really nice!! Let us know how it goes but escorts your probably 🏃♂️ you out of money. Other things like your hobbies involve group get together to create mingle sessions? Someone with like interests like you will be more attracted to you than random sitdown date setups. This is from me who had our friends that got married introduced me to their girl friend that was still single after college… where the F are your friends… ask if their wives or gf have friends? Let us know how it goes OP go for it!
There are professional cuddlers as well. I have thought about becoming one in the past. You can google or Reddit companies that offer professionals. The lines are clear nothing more than cuddling happens. Human touch is important and you deserve to have that in your life if you think it would benefit you.
Bad idea. You’ll develop feelings w a girl with 100 bodies.
Yes such bad idea. Because you’re not just going to cuddle be honest about what you want and go have sex with one . You’ll probably help you in your dating attempts if you’re honest with yourself in that too.
I was in escort in the past I don’t see any reason why not. All of the men I seen were young good looking men. If you seen them 100% you wouldn’t believe they pay for it because of the social stigma of what a “sugar daddy” looks like
Nothing wrong with wanting human touch, man. Escorts do this all the time. Just be clear about your boundaries, and don’t let it stop you from building real confidence outside of it.
Very bad idea
I think it’s certainly possible to do so but there is a percentage of women that exclude sexworkers’ clients from their dating pool.