Hey Reddit,
So… I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and figured maybe someone out there feels the same.
I’m not super social. I’m quiet, shy, and kind of bad at putting myself out there. I don’t have a fancy job, I’m not stylish, and I don’t have a bunch of followers or a super “put together” life. I just… exist quietly. I like books, music that makes me feel things, and deep conversations that aren’t forced.
But in this world—where it feels like you have to be confident, loud, and constantly posting to even be noticed—I honestly wonder: how do people like me find love? Is it possible?
I’m not looking for anything flashy. Just someone steady, kind, introspective—someone I can be myself with. But I don’t even know where to start when I don’t do parties or big social stuff.
If anyone has been here before, or if you’ve found someone even though you felt “invisible”… I’d love to hear your story. Or any advice. Or just to know I’m not alone.
Thanks for reading. ☕️