I (M18) have been going bowling a decent amount recently. There’s a girl who works there that I think is pretty cute, but idk her name and I haven’t even talked to her yet. I’m not really sure how to start talking to her, what I’d say, or if it’s even appropriate for me to ask her out. I’ve been rejected or ghosted by every girl I’ve liked, so I don’t think I’m attractive at all.
Tl;dr: I (M18) have been bowling a lot, and there’s this girl, who I think is pretty cute, that works at the bowling alley. I’d like to talk to her and ask her out, but I’m not sure if I should.
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As a general rule of thumb no but I feel like if you’re 18 and we’re talking about a bowling alley go nuts.
Is she on the clock? Then hell the fuck no
dont ask anyone out until you’ve bantered with her
No. I’ve worked in customer service before. There is nothing more infuriating than having a man hit on you, knowing that you can’t negativley react because you have to be professional. It’s condescending and irritating.
Rejection shouldn’t stop you from trying. Try, try, and try again.
Shoot your shot but try a friendly approach rather than romantic “I was hoping to get to know you over coffee?”.