I was talking to someone and we both stand on opposite sides of this question. I think it’s not because you should be focused on your partner and find ways to make those intimate moments better for both parties. I also think it’s not a natural thing for humans. While the other person said it was perfectly normal.
Edit: I’m talking about by yourself and not with your partner.
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This is going to fully depend on the two people.involved.
I, personally, don’t care because my husband doesn’t do it very often. If he does, ok. If he doesn’t, ok.
I do on occasion and he hasn’t voiced displeasure.
Sometimes we even watch together
Yes. It’s normal.
It’s only a problem if it interferes with your sex life with your partner OR causes you to mistreat people because of your consumption.
You’re 21, you can worry about literally anything else and be more productive.
It really depends on the relationship. My guy and I are super focused on each other. But some times it’s fun to have something kinky to watch while we get things going. It’s about personal preference. Also, if he’s at work or visiting family out of state, I have definitely watched some things on my own.
I think this is just one of those things that you have to find someone who has similar values about it as you. It varies from person to person, so you should be with someone who is on the same page as you, not one try to change the other.
It’s not. Porn warps your mind.
It’s normal for some, not for others. What matters is if both people in the relationship are on the same page. If it feels disrespectful to you, then it’s an issue that needs a real convo…. not a ‘right vs wrong’ debate.
No. Try to watch the least amount possible. Once you get hooked on the artificial dopamine rush, you’ll start only looking as peo0le as objects, you’ll break your dick, and a real live person won’t arouse you anymore. Easy access has made it too common and your sex life will rot.
yess very normal my girl loves watching big cocks on porn while she is being dirty…