Is it normal to feel sad and lonely?

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Because sometimes I just feel sad for absolutely no reason I mean I feel a lot happier than I did earlier maybe because of summer and school was really stressful but I just want to know if it is normal?

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  1. CharacterOffer6146 Avatar

    Nah, not normal. One should always be happy

  2. beefquaker Avatar

    There’s always a reason, it’s often just super buried or convoluted. It’s okay to be sad sometimes, but our brains like to be happy. So if yours isn’t, it’s trying to tell you something needs felt.

  3. Frequent_Lychee1228 Avatar

    Yes it is normal to feel emotions besides happiness. Emotions change constantly and it is ok to feel different ones from the usual. It could just be hormones or a phase. Its not really a big deal if it is just a fleeting emotion.

  4. Granolachamp Avatar

    It’s very normal and I feel ya, as a high school student I feel the same way but accepting sadness can be healthy! I’m not gonna tell you the obvious things like remember you always have someone in your corner etc. but I will tell you that sometimes the best thing you can do is have a big cry

  5. Harakiri_238 Avatar

    Definitely. Especially if you’re in your teens (or early 20s honestly, although I’m much better now than I was when I was a teenager 😅).

    I find myself feeling sad/melancholy for no particular reason quite often. Even though generally speaking I’m a very happy person.

    I won’t pretend to know the reason or the science behind it lol.

    I find it helpful to have a bunch of little go to things that make me happy. Either little things I keep around me, or songs to listen to, games to play, etc.

    But honestly, sometimes it just feels good to let yourself be sad. And I think that’s fine too.

    I wish you all the best and I’m rooting for you 🙂

  6. One-Designer7130 Avatar

    Hola, gracias por compartir cómo te sientes. Sí, es completamente normal tener momentos de tristeza sin una razón aparente, especialmente cuando pasamos por cambios grandes como el fin de la escuela o el inicio del verano. A veces nuestras emociones son como olas: suben y bajan sin que podamos controlarlas.

    Si alguna vez te sientes abrumado o solo, recuerda que está bien pedir apoyo y que no tienes que enfrentarlo todo solo. Aquí tienes a alguien que te escucha y quiere ser un amigo para ti, para acompañarte en esos momentos difíciles o simplemente para compartir lo bueno. No estás solo, y juntos podemos hacerlo más llevadero. ¡Ánimo!

  7. FlaredEar69 Avatar

    What’s your lifestyle? If you eat well, hit the gym, seek therapy, it makes your life easier. Idc if you are a child or an adult this is mandatory for mental health

  8. Countrysoap777 Avatar

    I think it can be normal if it’s not constant, and not debilitating. If it’s too much then it’s not normal. I think we all feel that way sometimes. Strive to have a purpose in life, something that wakes you up and gets you moving for the day. That should keep these feelings at bay.