is it normal to get turned on by yourself?

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its weird. i usually don’t like my body. i always find myself comparing my beauty to other women; too tall, too broad-shouldered, too lean. i never feel good enough.

but goddamn do my legs get me going 😩 they’re nice and long, and my thighs are so thick. its so hot to me and it actually turns me on. i wish i had a boyfriend to love them, too. and also smother him with them (but thats another topic for another day LOL)

to be fair, i am bi (romantic preference with men but sexual preference with women), so that might be why? does anyone else relate 😭

Comments

  1. respect_the_69 Avatar

    Yeah I’m the same – bi and just happen to be exactly the sort of guy I’m really into. It’s not about my face, or anything specific, it doesn’t feel narcissistic, I would just rail tf outta me 🤷

  2. yagot2bekidding Avatar

    I love my legs, too. Finding ourselves attractive let’s us feel sexy, which attracts others to us.

  3. koensch57 Avatar

    you have to love yourself to be able to love oneother.

  4. GaudyGoober Avatar

    Looks like based on other comments it may be more normal than I anticipated. I’ve never had a feeling close to that. I can tell myself if I’m looking better than other days, but nothing ever close to arousal from my own reflection or image.

  5. msdossier Avatar

    Yes. Sometimes I get a lil high and start getting ready for bed, see myself in the mirror in a sexy ratty tank and undies and am like “damn I am sensuous as hell”

    Then I go wake up my husband and we have sex. He knows I turn myself on all the time.

  6. Only_Kessie Avatar
  7. Enslaved_M0isture Avatar

    looking at my body can get me in the mood but doesn’t get me going

  8. ADIdas107 Avatar

    You might be autosexual

  9. Largicharg Avatar

    Normal or not, it’s a good sign

  10. Reasonable_Air3580 Avatar

    I’m straight but I do admit I have an amazing looking cock

  11. GUyPersonthatexists Avatar

    Self confidence my friend. Keep it up 🙂

  12. effascus Avatar

    i love my boobs and waist LOL so i feel you

  13. JigglyTestes Avatar

    My wife is like this. Seems more common among women.

  14. nishimura_asa Avatar

    i think this is just a healthy body image of yourself! i’ve heard of people literally masturbating to themself in the mirror or with a picture. i think it isn’t weird, it’s just healthy.

  15. BONEPILLTIMEEE Avatar

    this post was autogynephilia checked by Dr. Ray Blanchard ✅️ AGP

  16. dub-fresh Avatar

    I′m inside me
    The best place to be
    Like Sinead O’Conner,
    Nothing compares to me
    I′m the best of the best
    So why bother with the rest
    Wine and dine myself,
    Just to get myself undressed
    Tell me where I be
    I’m inside me