25F and I’m reflecting on all the relationships in my life, both platonic and romantic and I think the last time I “clicked” with someone instantly I was around 13. I hear a lot of stories from people saying they met their partner or best friend and they just instantly clicked. Pretty much all of my adult friendships and relationships required work to grow. Is this normal or am I missing something?
Comments
I knew I kind of liked my closest friends when we first met, but we didn’t “click“ in the conventional sense. I’ve never “clicked“ with anyone I was romantically attracted to within the first couple of months. I like to be friends first with people.
I never experienced that “click” either for both romantic and non romantic relationships.