Hi everyone, I hope this is okay to post here. If not please let me know where else to post.
But basically I (27F) fucked up my life due to mental illness. Im still completing my degree, unemployed, etc. never had a partner/boyfriend. I just want to find my husband/best friend. But I’m worried that my chance has gone. Who would want to be with someone in my situation, especially considering they are very obese (am working on it). Even after I’ve lost weight I’ll have tons of lose skin most likely.
It just seems that my chance is gone. Hope is lost.
Let’s just say I do manage to fix everything – I finish my degree lost the weight (and got loose skin surgery perhaps just for the sake of this point), have a job, etc… at that point I’d be at least 30-33. And personally I would want to know someone for at least 3 years before getting married and having kids. So then I’ll be like 36-37 before I would ever get to have a kid. And that is running out of time biologically.. and that’s if everything happens on time (in terms of finishing degree, losing weight, finding a job, etc). If one thing messes up then I very well could lose my change to ever have kids, IF I can ever manage to even find someone who loves me.
TDLR; can someone 27, with an unideal body, and very late achiever in terms of career etc. ever find love?
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This could happen to you anyway even if you aren’t fat. So does that mean you should just give up?