Is it possible to fall in love with someone after initially finding them unattractive?

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone after initially finding them unattractive?

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  2. wasting-time-atwork Avatar

    absolutely absolutely yes.

  3. iknowyouneedahugRN Avatar

    Attraction has many facets. I assume you are asking about physical attraction?

    Physical attraction is commonly what initially draws you to a person, but sometimes you can be turned off of a person you initially were physically attracted to because they are not emotionally attractive (rude, angry, etc ).

    You can reverse that, though: you can be emotionally attracted, either from actions reported (they do nice things) or audio (attractive voice/nice voice and nice verbalizing), but those are just a few ways to be attracted to someone, and then meet the person and find they weren’t your physical type but you evaluate the entire person for their attractiveness.

  4. UrbanWalker1 Avatar

    Yes, but…

    If you’re a guy and a woman you like initially found you physically unattractive, your odds are very, very low

  5. Kosilica457 Avatar

    Yes it is possible, but don’t count on it, especially if you are a man since women generally have enoigh options to never really have any need to even give a chance to someone who isn’t physically attractive to them

  6. actualhumannotspider Avatar

    Yes. Personality matters a lot.

  7. Frosty-Inspector-465 Avatar

    according to me idk how that’s possible

  8. Apprehensive-Cup2728 Avatar

    absolutely yes. i knew my best friend had a thing for me and i gave him a chance. i fell more in love with him than anybody else i’ve ever known. didn’t end well though lol