Is it possible to recover the mood after accidentally saying “make whoopee” during foreplay?

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I was getting intimate with my girlfriend and in a moment of panic, nostalgia, or some kind of weird mental glitch, I blurted out, “Wanna make whoopee?”

I have no idea why. I do not talk like that. I think

I briefly left my own body.

She stared at me like I had turned into her uncle at Thanksgiving.

The mood completely vanished. The candles were still burning, but it felt like we were under fluorescent lights emotionally.

Is there any way to bounce back from this?

Or is “make whoopee” the kind of phrase that ends things on the spot?

Comments

  1. JustGeeseMemes Avatar

    😂

    Depends on the other person

    If you are comfortable together and they don’t take these things to seriously then yes absolutely, it’s not that deep, being silly about sex can be fun

    If you just started dating and you were attempting to be sexy or romantic… dunno 🤷‍♀️

  2. Oizaf888 Avatar

    Gotta start doin the jitterbug after you say it. Add jazzhands if she says yes.

  3. whatsthis1901 Avatar

    IDK if a guy said that to me, I would think it was funny.

  4. OriginalSmooth5741 Avatar

    I really don’t have advice, this is absolutely fucking hilarious though

  5. West-Hedgehog7913 Avatar

    Idk, it shouldn’t have ruined the mood. You both could’ve giggled it off & continued.

  6. No-Cover-8986 Avatar

    Been there, done that, so, yes.

  7. ROUNDtheW Avatar

    You need to put Frank Sinatra’s classic Making Whoopie on your hi-fi and ask that doll-face if she wants to cut a rug!

  8. FlaminFlabbarghast Avatar

    Well, MrThunderCockShitKing….I feel for ya. Though I woulda just laughed it off.

  9. Mintymanbuns Avatar

    You mean quell the newly rampant mood?

  10. Phyddlestyx Avatar

    Absolutely, if you can’t laugh and make jokes during sex you’re taking yourselves pretty seriously

  11. JoeDaStudd Avatar

    If you can’t laugh before, during and after sex then you need to find a partner you can.

  12. PossibleJazzlike2804 Avatar

    Only if you play Marvin Gaye’s Let’s Get It On

  13. VisualHuckleberry542 Avatar

    Just better follow it up by making some serious whoopee, don’t make promises you can’t deliver on

  14. Angel_Without_Mercy Avatar

    If you posted this question whilst in the middle of said foreplay after saying this, then it is definitely not recoverable

  15. DadooDragoon Avatar

    With the right attitude, you can bounce back from most setbacks that occur

    Like if the mood is killed just because you said something wrong, idk if that person you’re with is mature enough to have sex with

  16. mairerolin Avatar

    I’d actually be more at ease if a guy could relax during it and have fun, sex isn’t supposed to be all uptight. It’s a bonding moment. So make all the jokes you want, and ease into the good bits. Use your jokes as a way to get into it. Like starting to kiss/bite as part of it, depending on what you’re both into.

  17. 500rockin Avatar

    It’s hilarious, but before she reacts go down to chowtown.

  18. dontlikecakefrosting Avatar

    Reminds me of the story where the guy called his girlfriend a “fuing reta” during dirty talk

  19. Fabulous-Possible758 Avatar

    Only if she follows up with “Let’s do the horizontal mamba.”

  20. EvilInky Avatar

    No. You might as well join a monastery now.

  21. shorrrtay Avatar

    Clearly she has not seen Mallrats nearly enough times. At least you didn’t ask her to do it somewhere very uncomfortable, like the back of a Volkswagen.

  22. WoestKonijn Avatar

    My ex once said: “yippee” during sex. I don’t think I ever laughed so much. who the fuck says yippee whist entering?

    If you can’t laugh with your person at any time during intimacy, I don’t think that person is yours.

  23. Common-Syrup5694 Avatar

    I once called sex “nookie” back in 2004. Still haunts me.

  24. gaymrham Avatar

    y’all need to start dating people with a sense of humor fr

  25. Princey1981 Avatar

    Ask her if she wants a Werthers candy.

  26. DrtyBlvd Avatar

    Yes. Play Nilsson

  27. BeefmasterDeluxe Avatar

    Where’s your manners? You didn’t say “please”!

  28. _HawthorneAbendsen Avatar

    You can try to commit a crime so you can turn states informant and then get in the witness protection program?

    Either that or move to Niagara Falls are pretty much your only two options, bub

  29. Brimst0ne13 Avatar

    It’s only recoverable if you can come up with a phrase thats both charming, hilarious, and sensual to counteract the goddamn whoopie. 😂

    Somethin like, “…so like I said. Let’s make like Whoopie, and Goldberg! proceed to spear her and play your favorite WWE intro music”

  30. Time-Palpitation-945 Avatar

    Personally this would’ve just made me laugh. Wouldn’t have been a deal breaker.

  31. hesutu1989 Avatar

    No it reminds me of watching reruns of the newly wed game with my grandma. It’s over lol

  32. MrDavieT Avatar

    No. You should pack up and move to Austria.

  33. ExactEntertainment53 Avatar

    Announce after that you meant rut like beast and balance will be restored

  34. RADIOS-ROAD Avatar

    She didn’t laugh?? Laaaaame

  35. WomanInQuestion Avatar

    Some of the best sex ever involves both parties busting into laughter over something silly that happens