Two months ago, I started liking a classmate. It started with her always coming up to me and initiating some physical contact, and we’d chat a little. Since I’ve never had a girlfriend, I started thinking there might be something there, and I’ve liked her ever since. One of my moves is secretly leaving her poems in her locker. At first, she reacted to them in class, but the last two, she clearly kept to herself. The only thing that’s been bothering me is whether it’s worth it to try for her, since she’s basically the type of girl who doesn’t have the same style as me. I’m a rocker, let’s put it that way. I don’t care what people think about me or what anyone says, I listen to music from the ’60s to today, but I don’t listen to Slovak rap. She’s kind of the opposite. She listens to Slovak rap, she’s part of the group of people who make fun of me and go out to clubs to party, I’d call her a popular girl, but not exactly. From what I hear and see, since she added me on Snapchat (I have her on there), I see that she doesn’t really go to clubs or house parties. I just want to know your opinion because I feel like it might not work between us since we’re very different in terms of interests and how we spend our free time. Apologies for my grammar. thanks for any answer
is it really worth it?
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In this situation, it may be helpful to reflect on the following aspects:
Ultimately, it’s important to trust your instincts and consider whether this person truly complements your life and brings you happiness. If you find that your differences create more discomfort or dissatisfaction than enjoyment, it may be worth reconsidering whether pursuing the relationship is the best decision for you.
Remember that building a meaningful connection takes time and effort, and it’s crucial to find someone who appreciates and respects you for who you are, regardless of your differences.
Dont think too much, you are not going to marry her (probably) Whatever (bad) might happen, take it as a way to practice communicating with women to be at your best for the time someone you think is more suitable happens to be in your path. Just use it as an experience. You probably will fuck it up anyway or do something stupid that you think is so horrible but in reality noone will remember it after ten years. And that’s okey 🙂