So last night I (32f) had sex for the first time with this guy I’ve been talking to for about a while now. And I squirted. He replaced the sheets after so we can sleep but wanted me to wash the sheet in the morning. Is this a normal request or is it weird? And am I right to not want to continue anything with this person even though it would only be a casual relationship?
Is it weird?
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In all honesty I had to end a relationship due to her excessive squirting, so im with him on this.. sorry
Um, is there an additional reason why you wouldn’t want to continue the relationship? Unless he has to pay to wash clothes then to me it doesn’t really matter who washes it. However, if he has to pay to wash clothes then I definitely see where he’s coming from, but also most men would just take the extra couple bucks hit and brag about what he made you do with his buddies. So on second thought, probably should not see him anymore cause why didn’t he do that? Would he pay for both of y’all’s meal within reason? Does he open the door for you or does any classic gentlemen things?
Don’t give him any more pussy. He can wash his own sheets too lol
Is this your place or his place?
If his place, I would expect him to clean the sheets. If the relationship continues then I think both people would be expected to contribute to household chores, including cleaning bedding.
Maybe he doesn’t like squirt
Maybe he is unfamiliar or not had that happen previously and isn’t sure the best way to clean the sheets?
Not all women squirt the same.
For myself I would be game on, next time we are putting down a towel…let’s make this erupt like a volcano!
wth? They’re dirty and need washing now, am I missing something?
He’s making it weird. Unless the sex is honestly that amazing, I’d be like “bye weirdo, I’m not your mom”
I’d have found it weird too if I was you. He should be able to wash his own sheets.
The request for you to wash the sheet is abnormal, everything else isn’t.
Some guys are bothered by it and it just is what it is, it’s also perfectly normal for you for you to be bothered by the fact that he was bothered by it. It’s not a fit.
Nah that’s rude as hell. Making you wash them at his house is crazy. Imagine how he’ll act if you accidentally bleed in his bed. That man should be proud of himself and more than happy, or at the very least willing, to clean up the mess.
Yeah if it’s his place I would definitely be like You need to wash your own bedsheets My squirt period blood towels etc.. that’s like him telling you to help pay the water because you washed your hands or something He is being weird 😌🤣
You are a guest, he can wash his own damn linens. He’s already wanting you to mother him.
RUN
To me it seems like he’s punishing you for it. I would be cautious.
Yes I think good girls would wash my sheets. It’s ok if not but I want you to. My wife can’t squirt but it’s ok I love her nevertheless
Maybe he thought you were wife material.
this just isn’t how you treat guests i. your home let alone someone who let you put your dick in them
Make us cum first
He is weird.
When that happened to me it was on my desk. She was embarrassed. I said no worries. Didn’t even wipe the desk down.
What is the issue you’re having here? That he wanted YOU to wash the sheet in the morning…or that he wanted to wait to wash the sheet until the morning?
However you feel about it is all that matters. Some might say he’s within his rights, but that’s not really the point. It felt ungracious to you, and you’re not wrong. Sex can be messy. Squirting is hot. Personally, I’d never do anything to make a woman feel bad about sex mess of any kind. If a woman is sharing her body with me, and I’m hosting, I assume the responsibility for cleaning. And if something gets ruined or needs to be washed, oh well, so be it, it’s part of being an adult and having sex.
Having said that, if you’re a squirter it’s courteous to notify a partner, so they can use a big towel, or a waterproof blanket or something if they don’t want to do laundry.
I’d flip you over and sink it in the other orifice until you did it again just to see if you were legit 🤣
Tell him to F off.
I would keep and retire the sheet as a relic of my conquest.
Seriously though, that’s wack.
If he finished onto your sheet at your place, would you ask him to wash it?
You pissed yourself
Um, his place, his sheets, his washing machine, his job!!
Also, if the squirting was unexpected or bothered him, then he could suggest laying down a towel, etc, to limit the laundry. However, at the moment his request is just rude….