Tl;dr: Is this appropriate touch? Boyfriend putting in lap and rubbing a mutual girl friend thigh
Is this appropriate touch?
I’m wondering peoples opinions!
My (25F) boyfriend (29M) when drunk, come over to me and a a mutual girl friend and asked to sit down, she stood up to move over and he put her on his lap and was rubbing the top of her thigh for a good few minutes
I know for myself this crosses a boundary and am planning to speak to him as for me that type of touch is reserved for intimate partner if youre in a relationship –
I have spoken briefly and he explained he would touch anyone like that even his guy mates, but I’ve known him two years in a friendship capacity and I’ve never seen him do that to male friends
wondering other people’s opinions if their partner did the same in front of them
Comments
You know it’s inappropriate. Now you can stop gaslighting yourself, and start deciding whether or not you’re okay with it.
People don’t change. Who he is now, is who he’ll always be. Choose wisely.
Why would your friend let this go on a few minutes?
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