I’m 33 M. Gf is 29F. She has a coworker that i don’t trust. She used to joke about him being a work husband. Then I went with her to a little event after work one night and he was there and I got to meet him. I just don’t like his body language when he is around her. She swears nothings going on. And ivenever seen her text another dude. But I just have a gut feeling something ain’t right
Is this normal?
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It’s normal to feel uneasy. Trust your gut, but talk to her openly. Focus on trust not control
“Work husband” is another way of saying ” your replacement if we ever break up”
Her reaction when you express how uncomfortable you are will help you decide what the next steps are. If she cares about her relationship with you, she would consider your feelings first and distance herself from this coworker since you are more important to her. It’s a hard convo to start and have but worth doing if you want the truth and to continue this relationship. Best of luck OP
Don’t trust him or her first chance they will hook up if they have not yet. It happened to me