[24F] [24M] my BF and I have been together for 5 years. I went to my BF apartment (he lives alone) and after wearing a shirt, probably leaving it on the floor over night, then putting it in my suitcase. I noticed when I got home after taking it out of my dirty hamper about a week later, that there was a long hair on it, which was clearly not mine. I know hair gets everywhere and can come from anything but there have been a couple other instances of this. I’m concerned that the hair on my shirt came from his place. Does this seem like something to worry about in terms of cheating?
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Does this hair seem odd
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Id ask openly and in ernest about your concerns. Nothing accusatory just share your worries. While politely highlighting that cheating is unacceptable. How they react should tell you most if not all you need. Unless you get something more definitive its up to you what you do. Do you really trust them? Or does something really seem off? And why…trust is really a choice at the end of the day.
There is no way to know where that hair came from if the item of clothing (yours) was on the floor (where people walk in and out of a house) then in a bag (where other things are) then in your dirty laundry (where other dirty things are) before you noticed it. Unless you have other reasons not to trust your boyfriend, this is a stretch.
Other instances of hair?
Hair gets everywhere. I don’t even know who inspects hairs they find. I just quickly throw them out bc they make me gag.