So my husband has an ex from high school it was pretty innocent and not serious but there was a whole issue where she cheated on him and they had some weird messy breakup but anyways for some reason ever since I started dating my husband 5 years ago, she always does something petty to bring herself up I feel like? but we have gone years and years without hearing anything until this week
so last month I saw that she had viewed his tiktok profile and requested him, I was surprised because I have not heard of her in forever! She has 3 kids now I just laughed it off! I make chocolate bars and sell them on my husband’s Facebook marketplace; this week she messaged asking if there is a chocolate bar available. I saw the message first and ignored it, but a few days later she asked to buy my sons clothes that my husband had listed on his marketplace. I ended up blocking her this time, but I am so very torn between if this is weird or an accident. She has 3 kids and is married I cannot understand why it seems like she is always trying to remind us of her when the relationship was in high school. She always posts about how wrong it is to talk to someone you used to date while you are in a relationship, but she has been doing little petty stuff like this for a while
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Sounds like you’re right to react the way you did.
I don’t know why you’d wanna be that hung up on someone from so long ago, especially considering the fact that both of the have kids now.
Honestly at this point it’s sort of expected the husband cut all contact from her.
Setting boundaries in a relationship is important, but this is beyond boundaries since you guys are married😋
But idk
Really wierd of her to keep coming up though, me personally I wouldn’t take that..
Nah mate, ur not crazy. Sounds like she’s trying to stir the pot a bit – maybe she’s bored or just wants a reaction? Stick to ur guns, keep her blocked, no more headspace wasted on her. High school drama should stay in high school, she’s gotta let it go. 💯👌 Stay strong, bruv. 💪👊✌️
Honestly, that would feel weird to me too. It sounds petty and unnecessary especially after all these years, and you don’t really know what she’s up to. Good thing you blocked her haha if she tries to po up again just block her again and again
I’d feel the same way in your shoes. Even if it’s not full-on drama, there’s a clear pattern of her inserting herself in small ways.
Blocking her was probably the best move so you don’t have to keep second guessing her intentions
She’s probably going through a slump in her own relationship and looking for some excitement and had time to think about her past a lot. Sounds like she is a bit of a loose cannon and you absolutely did the right thing by blocking her