I (23F)am becoming increasingly frustrated with me and my boyfriend(25M) sex life. I apparently have a higher sex drive than him and unfortunately I am not fully satisfied in that area nor am i used to not being fully satisfied/feeling wanted by my partner.
Is wanting to have sex once a day too much ?
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This is me in my relationships lol. I’d just be honest that you love him and want to make it work. Try to meet in the middle and compromise.
If he’s the right fit for you, he’ll be willing to do that.
Your needs are your needs. “Too much” is relative. You should have an open conversation with your partner about this so that way you guys can figure out a way to fix the problem.
Guys are a fickle bunch, we all want a woman that wants lots of sex all of the time, until we get one and we can’t keep up… have you considered having this chat with him instead of us?
The only thing that will fix this is sitting him down and talking to him about how it makes you feel, but at the same time you need to understand his side as well. A successful sex life needs a compromise from both side.
Good luck op.
Maybe explore what turns him on and if he isn’t already, try incite him to go to the gym. Testosterone will have him 🔥
Depends if he has to do all the work.
maybe you could explore fantasies he has but only once a week if he keeps up with you. gl!
I think so. But that’s just me
You can want sex once a day or once a month, it’s all normal but it becomes a problem when our partner doesn’t match up. Talk to your partner. Get a vibrator!
thank you all for the advice and what not !
Once a day is a lot IMO
Hello 🙂
The only thing you can do is to sit down with him and have an honest conversation about your and his needs… there are many factors that can influence libido such as depression, anxiety, stress etc.
you will understand more if it’s a matter of incompatibility in the bedroom or if it’s something else after such chat.
Not enuf!
I have an extremely high libido and made sure the person i am married to also has a very high sex drive ~ sexual compatibility is 1000% important for me, and sounds like it is for you as well.
Voice that you desire it, need it, want it, and if he can’t reciprocate it might be time to reconsider the relationship ~ i wish you luck 💗
Talk with him about it for sure. Even if he’s too tired, maybe he can make out with you/be present while you use a toy?
Are there other ways he can make you feel wanted without sex being the primary concern?
What does he say when you talk about it?
If not having sex every day is making you frustrated and doubt his attracting/feelings for you, that’s probably an indicator that other things are wrong.