please. MANY of these men out here (not ALL – and the well adjusted, sane ones also agree) are mentally ill, emotionally unstable, and psychologically destabilized.
they have a totally crippled sense of self and as such are crippled by their intense and deep-rooted insecurities. they are conditioned and brainwashed, completely to desire what some northern europe obsessed genocidal maniacs told them was beautiful 375 years ago. no im not talking about the N*zis, thought they were a later iteration of the same demonic entity (i honestly do not even know i’m using this metaphorically or literally a this point) powering these people and groups.
there is nothing even remotely truly validating about being desired by someone who lost the ability to think for himself when he was 7, or perhaps never had it. this is getting out of hand.
stop debasing yourself for men, stop degrading your to please them, do not treat them any different than you would another woman or anybody – basic respect, sure, but no wheedling, no trying to convince them, no risking your spirit or your life or life force energy to become what they want.
The juice is not worth the squeeze.
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Most of my girl friends would have meltdowns because I was getting more male attention. All of them were drunk so I dont 100% believe them when they accuse men of looking at me because I’m not noticing any stares as a sober person. Also, these women are in relationships. Why bother counting how many men are looking my way?
Hell yes. Live for yourselves women.
I wish I’d learned this sooner than I did.
A man who was supposed to be a platonic friend suddenly kissed me without warning/consent recently and when I asked why, he said “it was something I wanted to give”. Like a gift.
Summarily blocked and deleted from my life. 🫶
I recently hit the age where men don’t bother me anymore. It’s soooo nice. I feel safer.