I been feeling really lonely , I will probably be better by tomorrow… When I was younger I was okay with being alone but now as I got older I feel alone …I tried to make friendships but I ended up looking stupid when they don’t view me as a friend or a best friend..
Sometimes it feels like I’m meant to be alone it’s okay to be alone … But I have this future that I want and I will feel beyond devastated if it doesn’t happen… People automatically hate me or tear me down … I’m human I’m not perfect.. but people always talk about how nice & heartful … But you know how you get tired of always giving and just want a piece of love & belonging . It’s so weird I remember this time this guy tried to use me lol but when he made a effort to speak to me and choose me my spirit felt so alive but you how that went lol …
It’s 2:00 am
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you just need a doggy
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Hang in there and put your energy into a hobby and a higher spirit.
Ok so stop giving so much. You are just as worthy as anyone else to get what you need out of a relationship. People are attracted to others who know who they are and are confident and comfortable with who they are. Work on getting there first then the relationships will happen organically. No one hates you or is trying to tear you down. People are way more absorbed with themselves and if they are rude to you then thats on them not you. I don’t think its funny a guy tried to use you and the fact that you cared more about getting his attention than the fact that he had zero respect for you makes it pretty apparent you need to work on your own self worth. Your spirit should be pissed at that guy and want nothing to do with him. Try stop seeing yourself as the victim and toughen up. You matter, you have a lot to offer and you demand healthy relationships that are an equal give and take. Friendships come and go all through life…seek quality not quantity. Make sure to give people space too…don’t be needy. Remember you do not need others to validate your worth. You are just as special, just as cool, just as amazing as anyone else out there.
Right is your best friend never disappoints