I usually don’t spend a lot of time on Instagram, but I encountered a random post and decided to go through the comments. So the post basically shows two women showing their comfy dressing style. Both are fully clothed, and the video is taken at night, so you don’t even see their figure clearly. The first one is wearing dark leggings with boots, and the second one is wearing a baggy sweater and pants.
So, just a simple, mundane post. Omg, the comments though…
Multiple comments, which got thousands of likes, were saying things like how the first girl is a h*e, how she must have an OnlyFans, that she is an attention seeker, that she is for the streets, and how the second one is wife material, just because first one is wearing leggings. And these aren’t just some lonely comments; they literally received thousands of likes. 🤦
To be honest, at this day and age, staying single or going through your partner’s comment history is the only logical action. Pay attention, I’m not talking about going through his messages. Nope, just his comments. It will literally give away who he really is.
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No meta apps are worth using.
The world is a dangerous place for women with men like that. Even the women in relationships with men they think who love them can be at risk.
So many men literally hate or dislike their wives or girlfriends. They just stay with them for what they can do for him.
May “love” like that never find me! It’s better to be alone at peace than be with the wrong man.
I don’t find comments here better, I used to be on tattoo subs and any time a woman posted people would check for a link tree and comment that she was either an “OF b****” or “safe” depending on if she had one or not, even if she had a tattoo.
I also tend to see a lot of perverse sexulization on reddit just like meta. I was actually just replying to a man’s comment about how it’s biological to objectify every woman you see 🙄 and expected. It was a video of a contortionist and apparently men can’t handle themselves if they see a butt for a few seconds.
The worst argument is when they say men get the same comments on similar videos, I have never seen a woman comment on a man’s dick or balls, or his baby making ability, his youth, or his fertility when he is practicing archery, swimming with sharks or alligators, or contorting.
I have watched a male contortionist’s videos, the female audience mainly just commented how impressive the act was.
Normalized and encouraged by other men (derogatory) that make hating women their entire personality.
the algorithm is made to keep you angry and engaged
i avoid the comments. they always come back to misogyny even if women aren’t mentioned in the post.
The hate is increasing due to the recession we are experiencing for a few years now. In economic hard times misogynistic tendencies increase.
I wish someone would do a timeline analysis to understand this link (someone smarten than me) because ever time a society flourishes woman rights and sexual openness increases. In hard times misogynistic tendencies becomes stronger and men get the tendency to show dominating trades towards woman that can turn violent depending on the circumstances.
There are further points that escalate the conflict out of the male perspective. In modern age women are driving force in economy. They are competition to a male especially if she is childless and unmarried. They get resources that a man feels entitled to and in times of need he will turn to violence to even the scale out of his perspective. Of course he’s demanding that a woman should a housewife rather than stealing his job with her fancy degree.
The most recent examples of that in modern times was the crisis in 2008 were mostly women were laid off and girls had to take limited consumption compared to males or the corona crisis were the double burden of schooling and working+ house care was mostly done by women.
This also explains the sudden switch from tinder hookup culture to 0 body count. Sexual freedom is only possible if the economy is going well.
Patriarchy is system. Everything is connected.
Write down your extended family’s contact info and delete Facebook and insta, delete Twitter and tiktok. Turn off 90% of your phones notifications. Let your mental health begin to heal.
4b movement has a new offshoot (not sure if it’s 5b or 6b or which one) but basically it says don’t engage with these men (or patriarchal women, if it’s those). They want your attention – don’t give it to them. They want to drain your energy – don’t let them. Let them jack each other off in the comments and just live your best life
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTY65XcDc/
It’s an epidemic and it’s gross. Any woman who just posts a silly cute video goofing off with their friends gets this treatment. Attention seeking, OF, sometimes they’re even proof of the decline of western society. It’s genuinely weird and gross.
I think we need to start unabashedly naming & shaming these dudes on a large scale.