So long story short, I’m 15, I was stupid and now I’m pregnant. I’m 39 weeks pregnant now. I’m getting my labor induced at 9 in the morning, I’m not really sure what to expect, I am extremely scared though. Can anyone explain what to expect or anything advice wise in general? Sorry if that doesn’t make sense. I’m exhausted, but can’t sleep because of nerves
It’s pretty late at night, so I don’t know if anyone will see this
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You’re walking into the most intense, life-altering battle of your life, so don’t walk in silent. Speak up, ask questions, and demand support because this moment will shape you but it doesn’t have to break you.
I really hope you aren’t going through this alone. Do you have a support system right now?
Make sure that whoever you have with you in the room is someone that truly has your best interest in mind. Having someone there that not only listens to you and your needs but also advocates for those needs will help make the process a tad easier.
Hey, don’t overthink it. You are about to meet your soulmate and you need to focus on how beautiful it will be to feel that incredible love. Women have been delivering babies forever and our body is perfectly made for it – also, you could ask for an epidural 🙂 girl you got this! Get some rest and everything will be okay.
You’re about to do something incredibly hard and incredibly brave don’t let fear steal your power. Labor will be intense, yes, but stay focused, listen to your body and the nurses, and remember every wave of pain brings you one breath closer to meeting your baby.
Labor is hard and the pains are intense. If you’re scared, don’t be afraid of getting the epidural. They are like period cramps but WAY intense. The idea of them is pretty scary and going through them hurts like a mother. The good news is your body really does forget the pain afterwards.
For postpartum recovery, literally take any supplies the hospital/nurses give you. Anything in the recovery room for you to use to care for your southern parts is considered single use by the hospital and is often tossed when they reset the rooms, even if those items are unused. Take all the giant pads, peri-bottles, tucks pads, mesh underwear, ice/heating packs.
Are you planning on keeping your baby? Or do you have adopters lined up?
If you’re planning on keeping the baby, please do NOT hesitate to advocate for yourself and your infant as assertively as possible. You need support in order to support your baby. If you do not not feel like you will not be supported, or are in a bad place with whoever will be caring for you after you give birth, make sure you speak to your nurses, or your doctor at your 6 week follow up.
Hang in there. You can do this.
I was 17 when I had mine. It was very nerve wracking and scary in the moment. Make sure you have a really good supportive person in there with you, it helps a lot. I had my mom with me.
I’ve had four kids and had great labor and delivery nurses. They will take good care of you and will explain everything that is happening. If you know you plan on getting the epidural to manage the labor pains, don’t be shy about it – tell them when you’re ready. Glad to see your parents are supportive. I think both will be allowed in with you so don’t worry too much about that. You will be okay. The medical team will make sure of it. Deep breaths. Relax. Get some sleep. You have a busy day tomorrow!
Hey there
This is going to be a huge moment for you, I’m glad to see you have your parents support as they will be there for such an important time. Take deep breaths, close your eyes and don’t be too hard on yourself as no one automatically knows how to navigate their life once they give birth. Give yourself grace, and remember you are doing the best you can for that baby! Good luck ❤️