I 23m, just found out my girlfriend of 6 years cheated on me. She came for sleep over yesterday and we had our wonderful night. Today morning she went to bath and touched her phone and searched the word cheat. I opened a chat with her friend and saw something suspicious. I didn’t know what. So what i did is she came out of the barhroom and asked her what she wanted to eat, i prepared the food and served her. She was eating enjoyingly and asked why I wasn’t eating i said not hungry.
I sat down and asked her, ‘if we were to breakup would you prefer over the phone or in person’, she why and in person. I asked her ‘do you know how you investigate my phone every time, well i did yours today’. ‘Do you have anything you want to tell me’. She said no why. Then i said get out of my house. She then stared at my eyes and saw I wasn’t kidding. She wait let me go spit out the food in the bathroom as she couldn’t swallow no more. Let’s just say, I calmly sat and listened to her cry while explaining. I didn’t over react or anything. I said to her, at least it wasn’t my fault (said this because we once were forced to stay together after they found out we were sleeping together) another story. She would not leave my house and started making a scene. I gave her taxi money and said to her, i was gonna marry you.
Ps. I’m just writing this to try a make myself feel better.
Also. As i am typing this she just texted me.
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Care to explain what was suspicious for context?
23 years old with a gf of 6 years? You have plenty of life ahead of you my friend and you might consider this a blessing in disguise as more time passes.
I call BS.
What did she text you?
What will you miss most about her?
Meh, this sounds either fake or just some kid shit.
What exactly did she do for you to react like that?
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This reads like the plot of a teen angst netflix drama.
Once you opened the chat, the relationship was over. Not because of what you saw, but because the trust was gone. It can’t work from no trust
Is this some kind of bait again. You didn’t explain what you saw was suspicious
This could be made up, but it’s also perfectly plausible. Good luck, bro. Keep your head up.
Anyone else read that in the voice of Borat?
Eh, you was gonna marry her? 6 years bro? Why take so long lol. I don’t believe at all you were going to marry her. It doesn’t take 6 years lol.
Well this is confusing and I’m still not really sure what she did. Searching the word cheat isn’t proof of cheating? I’m lost.
So your saying she is single now?😊
Why would you say you were going to marry her? Why not just say good bye?
Is this karma farming post?
Do folks name someone Cheat in their phones? Why search for Cheat? Odd thing to search for.