Lol, I know it’s not a big deal, and maybe a little vain but whatever.
It’s not that I was insecure, I’m just faceblind af and legitimately never noticed what I look like before. Don’t really know what finally clicked, but I was looking in the mirror and it suddenly clicked that that’s what I really look like.
I know it’s mundane. Thanks for your time, if anyone actually reads this. I hope you have a peaceful day.
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Very nice!
I recently discovered i`m a Chad and have tons of female attention, even though i thought i was the ugliest nerd.
its not vain esp bc if u felt insecure abt ur looks bc of obnoxious beauty standards
Aww that’s very nice to hear, good for you :))
I used to weigh about 350 pounds. I’ve never once thought of myself as good looking. I’m now down to about 180. I went to pick my daughter up from work a few weeks ago, and she got in the car gagging. I asked what was wrong. She said, “Two of my coworkers told me that my dad is hot!” So…at least my 47 year old ass rates well with the 18-21 crowd I guess… 🤣🤣🤣
P.S. – I still see the fat guy in the morro most days. Body Dysmorphia is very real.
I can relate to this! Im happy for you ♥️
That’s actually really awesome! It’s such a good feeling when you suddenly see yourself the way others probably already have for a long time. Thanks for sharing something so positive hope you keep carrying that feeling with you. Wishing you a peaceful day too!
Good for you!!! For me, it was like this: when the most hauntingly beautiful man I’ve ever seen in my life (even online) showed interest in me, I thought to myself, “wait a second, hold on” of course, I feel “not enough” because of the influence of social media, but is that a reason to ACTUALLY feel that way? hella no!
Sometimes I’ll look in the mirror and say I’m too pretty to be depressed