Ladies, how do you kept or keep an active sexual life while living with parents or anyone else who wasn’t your SO?
Ladies, how do you kept or keep an active sexual life while living with parents or anyone else who wasn’t your SO?
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Ladies, how do you kept or keep an active sexual life while living with parents or anyone else who wasn’t your SO?
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Waiting until nobody is home, as both of us live with our families
I used to have my partner stay over and try to be discrete. We probably didn’t manage it but nobody said anything.
If that’s not an option, there are trips away, late night drives to the coast, waiting until nobody is home, online communications…
Normalize spending time together alone in your room. So when the mood does strike it’s not out of the norm for you to head off to your room.
Quickly and quietly.
Wait till no one is home, or be very stealthy. You can make it work.
In this situation, I go to my partners place. We hang out in his room cause that’s where we smoke. I just need to learn to be quiet 😂
I moved back in with my mom back in 2020 due to a disability. I live in the basement. I can do it regardless whether my mom’s home or not. I’m a 28M virgin though take what I said with a grain of salt
Sometimes we liked to “take a drive” when we had to both live in his parent’s house. Gave his folks the house to themselves and got us the hell out of there for a bit. Keep a kit in the car (blanket, baby wipes, stuff like that) and get food after 😏 perfect cover
I have maintained a sex life while living with a roommate and with my SO’s parents. I just assume everyone else is going to be an adult about it and do what I want. No one has ever brought it up (except once when we were asked to keep it down at night, which was a brief moment of embarrassment and then we all moved on with our lives).
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We sleep with a sound machine every night and quite loud. It’s great for sleep but also keeps the dogs from barking at every sound.
We frequently go away together for the weekend.
Toys, that’s how. And no I didn’t have access to adult toys until I was actually an adult so yeah.
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We’d naturally be up late at night after my parents were asleep – bedrooms were also on opposite ends of the house