Just for background context, my gf was in a 3 year relationship before me. I never had doubts I just know 3 years is a long time. She recently introduced me to her family and extended family, she’s been introduced me to close friends. Am I in the clear ? Haha she’s a sweet girl and all, I just know her last relationship ended badly. I know how serious it is when I introduced her to my family so im wondering if the same magnitude was for her?
TLDR; is her introducing me to family and extended family proof she’s over her ex? I never doubted her I just know 3 years with someone is a long time
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Does she live with her family? How long ago was the last relationship? How long have you been together?
People have different connections with their family, but usually it’s quite a big step.
I would say that with her age it’s a pretty big deal that she introduced you to her parents, which at least shows that she see’s the relationship as serious. Since she has been 18, she’s only introduced you and her previous boyfriend, who she was with for three years.
In regards to being over her partner, that’s something that we can’t know. It would depend on why it ended, what happened, how long you’ve been dating etc.
But overall, I would say it’s a positive that she is introducing you to her family.
She may not may not be over him. Introducing you to her family isn’t really a measure of that.