The only one I ever had was when I was single and he seemed very interested in me and wanted to socialize both inside and outside of work a lot. He had a professional reason to be in my office maybe once per quarter, but somehow still made it in there several times per week usually a few times a day. I didn’t see him that way at first, it was his constant interest that got me thinking of him as a dating option. He once sent me flowers for my birthday from “a secret admirer” but then admitted he’d sent them. Never actually dated, every time I tried to gently discuss it (carefully because this is my workplace after all) he would avoid the subject and my office for a week before it started up again. This went on for two years. I eventually got so frustrated by the confusion and distraction of it all that I ended up leaving that job to work somewhere else. He tried socializing still after I left but I cut him off. He just wanted attention. No thanks.
My fiance, we met at work, both left after they were treating us unfairly. We both know work remote jobs and get to hang out during lunch and have no commute, it’s awesome. So he’s my ex coworker, but my forever work crush
He has since left the company, but he was the customer service rep. The only reason was because he was the only coworker near my age, and he was semi-cute. Haven’t really thought about him since he quit; proximity crush, that’s all.
Very nice, friendly, personable, gets on well with everyone.
Very nice looking (way too good looking for me he can have anyone he wants).
I wasn’t bothered initially…but he started flirting. We get on well and have a lot of random stuff in common. People said he was interested…I stupidly listened to them when they said “ask him out” 🤦🏾♀️. I did and never got a reply. So…I decided to just forget about it all…and I suppose the lack of attention I had previously given bothered him so he brought up timing and some sob stories and asked why I was upset(lol).
Never mind. I have resigned myself to being everybody’s ugly friend 🤓
I don’t know why I like him 🤨. Early on there was an interaction where he was incredibly rude and it was observed by someone else who told him he should apologise because what he did was quite mean(so he did…probably a fake apology 😒)
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My husband. We work from home together. Different companies though
He’s exactly my type. But he’s so much younger than me that it feels a bit wrong. And I’m probably too much of an introverted geeky weirdo for him.
On the positive side, it has forced me to do more social activities at work since we work on completely opposite sides of the building.
I don’t have one, unless you count the occasional times my fiancé and I both work from home.
Don’t have one.
The only one I ever had was when I was single and he seemed very interested in me and wanted to socialize both inside and outside of work a lot. He had a professional reason to be in my office maybe once per quarter, but somehow still made it in there several times per week usually a few times a day. I didn’t see him that way at first, it was his constant interest that got me thinking of him as a dating option. He once sent me flowers for my birthday from “a secret admirer” but then admitted he’d sent them. Never actually dated, every time I tried to gently discuss it (carefully because this is my workplace after all) he would avoid the subject and my office for a week before it started up again. This went on for two years. I eventually got so frustrated by the confusion and distraction of it all that I ended up leaving that job to work somewhere else. He tried socializing still after I left but I cut him off. He just wanted attention. No thanks.
My husband. But we work diff shifts. But he will come and find me before his meeting to check on me.
My fiance, we met at work, both left after they were treating us unfairly. We both know work remote jobs and get to hang out during lunch and have no commute, it’s awesome. So he’s my ex coworker, but my forever work crush
He has since left the company, but he was the customer service rep. The only reason was because he was the only coworker near my age, and he was semi-cute. Haven’t really thought about him since he quit; proximity crush, that’s all.
A guy in leadership (but I don’t report to him).
Very nice, friendly, personable, gets on well with everyone.
Very nice looking (way too good looking for me he can have anyone he wants).
I wasn’t bothered initially…but he started flirting. We get on well and have a lot of random stuff in common. People said he was interested…I stupidly listened to them when they said “ask him out” 🤦🏾♀️. I did and never got a reply. So…I decided to just forget about it all…and I suppose the lack of attention I had previously given bothered him so he brought up timing and some sob stories and asked why I was upset(lol).
Never mind. I have resigned myself to being everybody’s ugly friend 🤓
I don’t know why I like him 🤨. Early on there was an interaction where he was incredibly rude and it was observed by someone else who told him he should apologise because what he did was quite mean(so he did…probably a fake apology 😒)