My husband has been cheating on me for months my friend said he saw him at a drive-through McDonald’s late at night with a girl and my friend messaged me while I was in bed, she sent me photos (which I don’t think I’m allowed to post on here so I won’t).
Since then I have noticed all his suspect behaviour from going golfing at weekends (which was new for him) to Work Meetings on a Monday morning out of town meaning he had to stay over on Sunday. I snooped through his phone and saw messages and Photo’s to confirm it all.
Before we married, we organised our assets with a prenuptial agreement, and to be honest, it’s pretty fair, so there is no issue there.
I plan to get back at him in a few different ways, we were always into the chastity kink. So I plan to be all sexual for him and get him to put on his chastity cage. I am then going to walk out of the house get into my car drive to one of his friend’s places and stay the night. I have planned this for weeks and we have been messaging on Facebook so I am a little scared that he’s setting me up with my husband or I am in for a night of pleasure.
I am incredibly nervous about walking out on him but I cannot accept this disrespect. I know I am going tit for tat but its what I want to do. I am sure I will be judged negatively but I wanted to get it off my chest before I go ahead with it in a few hours.
Currently sat on my bed in tears, whilst putting on my lingerie for a night of fun. Mixed emotions.
Wish me luck
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Just don’t do anything you don’t really want to do. That’s the only thing you’ll regret.
Just let it go dude. Doing all this will do absolutely nothing for you. Thr thing that would make him suffer the most, is if you were packed up and gone with zero explanation, and let his cheating and lying brain flail in the not knowing.
you do you babe! if you really wanna do it then good luck! I just hope you want to go for it fully and will have no regrets later on
Ha. The irony of having that toy when he’s been with other people. Guess you should have had him wear it to work. Tell him to have his girlfriend help him out and to have his lawyer speak to yours on Monday. I kind of like if.
I get the leaving part, but I thought your going to leave him for good and not simply take revenge by driving to his friend to fuck him wtf??? How cheap is that?
It would be far more impressive if you simply pack your stuff and leave him for good with the chasity keys.
I would say do it, but leave put the key in the bottom of your stinky full kitchen bin, walk out in front of him with your stuff and tell him to dig through the trash if he wants out! Don’t leave w the key I feel like you could get in some trouble for this
I just looked up chastity cage. Do it
I don’t know about the friend part, especially since you have been in communication for a while. The friend is either an absolute scumbag or he is setting you up with our husband. Either way, I wouldn’t trust him.
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Lol this is pretty diabolical 👌
This is such a raw, painful situation, and I’m so sorry you’re going through it. The betrayal cuts deep, and that mix of anger, hurt, and adrenaline is overwhelming.
That said—revenge might feel satisfying in the moment, but are you sure this is the way you want to handle it? You’re already hurting, and adding more chaos (or potential regret) might not bring the closure you deserve. If you’re set on walking away, why not just walk away clean? Let him sit with the consequences of his actions without giving him any ammo to twist things against you.
Either way, please prioritize your safety—emotionally and physically. If you’re worried his friend might be in on it, trust that instinct. And if you need to scream, cry, or just sit in silence with someone who gets it, reach out. You don’t have to do this alone.
Sending strength. Whatever happens tonight, remember: his choices don’t define your worth. You deserve better than games. You deserve peace.
With the prenup in place and his wanderings, seems like you’d be doing him a favor. Not sure this is any revenge at all.
The best revenge is just not to do anything and walk away. And tell everyone why you walked away. You might regret this one night stand.
I don’t think sleeping with the friend is going to make you feel any better. I think it will make you feel worse and give up the high road.
I think you will move on, heal better, and make him suffer the most, by calmly leaving. The shock of not fighting, not asking for any explanation, simply leaving, will make him feel horrible.
It’s actually a gift to him if you sleep with his friend, because it gives him a reason to be angry. It gives him the ability to delude himself and manipulate the role of the “bad guy,” here for himself and others.
Anger feels a lot better than shame and regret. Giving him a legit reason to be angry by cheating on him with his friend, will feel nicer on his end by giving him a reprieve from having to look at his life and realize what he destroyed at you’re leaving.
This plan will leave you the only one feeling ashamed. I think you would be happier if you just left and left him to his own mess.
If you have a prenup and it says anything about cheating, then you hook up with your friend tonight, you’re in the same legal position he is.
Fucking his friend will only give him more ammo… Just have him put the chastity belt on and then leave with the keys, I promise you won’t regret that decision.
Get your revenge but make sure you leave as well.
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Petty? Absolutely.
It’s worth it to petty on special occasions…
Revenge is to do something to hurt the other person but don’t do that by destroying your integrity. Get things settled with a lawyer and get out.
No way this is gonna make things worse 🍿
Dont do it. It’s beneath you. Why sink to his level?
Go for it! He earned it and you deserve a good time.
this is the dumbest fucking post i ever read on here. you got some issues. you think that’s going to make him jealous and want you more or something? nah. he’s got his girl. he won’t give you a second thought lol.
The cages are actually very easy to remove. I wouldn’t bother with that. Just let everyone you know mutually see the pictures of him cheating.
sleeping with your friend might help you for a while. if I were you I would choose ghosting him and move on
Ask him for his scorecard!
Amazing…do it
Wow, that’s amazing. I’m a little concerned about the legal risk here – and if you have kids, the risk that this stunt may impact custody decisions.
You think that sleeping with his friend will be revenge, but he won’t care and might even be happy.
Where will that leave you?
Are you going to feel happy if you sleep with this guy? FFS, you are crying in your lingerie which means this isn’t about your “pleasure” but trying to hurt him.
The only person you are going to hurt is yourself and you will feel empty and disappointed when it doesn’t get the reaction you expect.
I completely agree, an ex from my 20s started an affair but told her we were split so I sent her everything and made his life hell.
Or or how about this, an absolute amazing revenge plan: just leave.
Let it go and move on, why do you wanna play games with these shitheads? Theyre literally not even worth the time and effort, forget about that shit and move on. Plenty of awesome people out there and things to do.
They say that the best form of revenge is success
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Sleeping with his friend lowers you to your husband’s level. Just leave and you’ll take the high road with you.
Don’t do it. I just read about a lady tricking her boyfriend into a storage unit, locked him in and then left. He found his phone in the pitch black dark a week later and was finally able to call for help. She got into so much trouble. Just leave without a word and no more contact. That will hurt them more.
Fine before and fine after… go live your best life
Don’t stoop to his level. This is not going to make him feel the way you think it will. Just leave him and find someone to be happy with. That is your revenge.
Do what you want but I think you’re mixing too many emotional things. You’re leaving a cheating husband while simultaneously opening yourself up to all the emotions involved with a new sexual partner…..its just confusing the picture; cheating husband, leaving, sex with someone else….its a muddled mess.
You are doing too much. Simply pack your stuff, and go! Revenge is sweet in the moment, but after that, the feelings of hatred, sadness, embarrassment, etc will still be there. Please just leave and then take the time to heal. He won’t care what you do for “revenge” either. If he’s cheating, he doesn’t care about you, simple as that.
Cheaters deserve no quarter.
Having said that, remember that as you stare into the abyss, so too does the abyss stare into you. Don’t become the monster.
You’re making a difficult situation impossible.
Pack your stuff and leave. Call your friends and have a good cry.
Then when you’re ready to get your groove on, you can enjoy yourself.
Stop wasting your time and energy on your ex. Don’t have sex for some kind of revenge. Believe me, you’ll feel worse afterwards.
Do you boo!!!!!!!!!!! I love this for you!
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Sending thoughts, prayers, and a GPS tracker because this plan is wilder than a soap opera season finale.
Don’t cheat. That’s stupid. Why lower yourself to his standards? You’re better than that.
This blew up a lot more than I expected.
Do I do an update on the post? or create a new topic I am not too sure how Reddit works?