Been trying to bottle up my feelings for a coworker. But yesterday I discovered that it’s mutual, found out from Reddit of all places..
I want to tell her I feel the same, but also don’t want to ruin my career. The draw to her that I feel Is strong, and now that I know it’s mutual I know it’s real chemistry.
How should I proceed?
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F her right in the P.
Ask her out.
Go for it.
Most places have a procedure for coworkers dating. If it’s mutual why not?
Did you find out from other redditor?!?! God speed.
Ask her out.
If you are that worried for your career, start applying for another place, while dating her.
All the best.