Living in a big city is horrible

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I don’t get how people manage to live in a big city. You are surrounded by concrete, you don’t even know your neighbours, the air is slowly killing you, there are so many people that even walking across the street is a challenge, the traffic noise is always present, you are unable to see the sky at night, if you drive you spend hours for moving like 5km (3 miles)
I would prefer driving 30km (20 miles) for the first supermarket than going back to a city.
I lived in one, I have to go into every day for work but I prefer living outside, very far actually, and drive in every day than living inside.

I don’t get people that would die for living inside a big city. I know people that never got out the city in their whole life… what a poor way of living

EDIT
DISCLAIMER: I don’t live in the US I live in Northern Italy and all cities I am talking about are walkable and full of public transportation but that’s not the point. It’s still awful to move and live in.