I (30F) need some human insight, I’m so close to asking ChatGPT but that’ll just make me crazier.
I made a mistake and immediately told my partner (34M) about it. I’m bi and kissed a woman.
It’s also news, less than 6 months, to my partner that I’m bi.
He’s also anticipating a loss in the family.
When confessed the kiss to him, he quietly made statements that came from hurt and anger and then he quietly fell asleep..
The following day he acted normally.. and still is acting normally. It’s been almost 2 weeks.
I’m not sure what I want to do or what the kiss means to me but I know I liked it.
For some context we’re also slightly sexless, we’re lucky to do once a month but overall I’ve felt like I’ve not been interested in doing it.
Ah so confused.
TL;DR I cheated and feel so guilty. He wants to keep it normal like nothing happened. It’s eating at me and I don’t know what to do.
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It lowkey sounds like you were expecting a different reaction and it turned out he wanted the relationship to continue like normal even though you enjoyed the kiss. I personally would end it because you already cheated, you enjoyed it, and it sounds like you’re holding on for the sake of a family member potentially dying which in that case there’s never gonna feel like a moment is “right” to end it