Hello, let me give you a little bit of context, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 10 years, somo time ago she told me that she would like to get married but at the same time I told her that I don’t really like that, that it is a waste of money, I don’t need to marry to know that I love her.
Well recently I was planning on marry her basically to fulfill her wish, then a couple of weeks ago she told me that we need to talk, that we need to go in the same direction to continue with this relationship, so I told her that I already had a plan to give her the ring but it was a surprise, then she told me that yes it is supposed to be a surprise but that we should have talked about that before, that she should have waited for it but as before I said that I didn’t want to get married now she is not as excited as she should be and does not even expect it
What should I do or tell her? I don’t want to lose her just because of that, also consider that I live in a different country and I will she her in person in like two months
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