Love with no promises

r/

‏Me ‘F20’ and them ‘M19’

‏So, I’m with someone and it’s real. we both love each other and it feels amazing when we’re together. The thing is, we can’t really promise each other a future. No long-term plans, no “we’ll definitely end up together” kind of thing

‏We can’t even really be together in person
‏because of circumstances we can’t control. It’s not cheating or anything shady, just life making
‏it complicated
‏It’s basically just love with no guarantees. Lately, I’ve been feeling more and more attached, and that’s what worries me the most, I don’t want to walk away, but I also don’t want to get crushed later

‏I’m trying to figure out whether to just enjoy it as it is or take a step back before getting too attached.
‏Just wondering if anyone else has been in a similar situation and how they handled it

‏TL;DR: I love someone (M19) but we can’t promise a future and can’t meet in person; I’m getting attached and don’t know what to do