I (26M) have been having feelings for about 6 months towards my BM (27F) best friend (23F). Back during last winter we all took a trip together for my kid and during that trip everyday I kept talking to her and just overall being around her kept making me feel weird in a good way. Like I haven’t felt before.. at first it just seemed like a normal friendship, but after a while I started to develop feelings. During this trip I felt like she was sending me signal but I just based it off my dumb brain wanting something to be there. She has a bf but I still can’t shake my feelings away. She’s also been there for my BM while me and her were going through it. Which is why I get so guilty. Idk I just don’t know what I should feel… If I could get some advice I would really appreciate it.
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Let em go.
You have a kid with your BM.
Don’t make it messy.
Instead of focusing on another woman, maybe try fixing things with BM? Putting another person in your already complicated life will just mess up your life even more