M21 dating F21 just dont have anything to say to eachother anymore

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TDLR: When we started dating, we never ran out of things to talk about with each other; now we can sit there and not say a word. We have had fights in the past, which have made us both guarded, but I would like to think they have been resolved. We simply ask each other about our days and that is it.

Silence, unless I ask some question about her and further probe into her conversation. But it’s just silence, not a comfortable one either. So im just really lost here

I dated someone during lockdown, and we had no problem not talking, but this just feels very heavy, and I don’t know if she feels the same either. What could be happening?

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  1. seeyakid Avatar

    Are you sure your fights have found resolution? Because two people who have a history of communicating well suddenly no longer communicating is a sign of resentment and unresolved conflict.