There are various specific qualities and attributes that I love about her, but generally speaking, my wife is such a fun and interesting person to be around and there’s no way I’d want to lose that.
Because I said I would, and a man is only as powerful as his word. Also, I love my wife and we work together on making our marriage better every day to ensure that love doesn’t die.
Movies, video games, books, anything that introduces new information or ideas into our lives, we love to share and discuss it. We make each other laugh all the time, we enjoy our intimacy whenever we can have it, and we’re awesome at communicating when problems arise.
When you realize the rarity of finding someone who is willing to stick it out with you for the long run, despite your fuck ups along the way, it not only makes you feel truly loved but also endlessly blessed to have someone so special in your life. I could probably have a couple dozen crazy flings, as could many men and women, but true, unconditional love is something far worth giving all of that nonsense up for, something that makes a life worthwhile.
The fact that she loved me so much to say yes to be married to me. The way she calls me her husband and looks at me with confidence and pure love. (Even though I struggle to see in myself what she does.)
People change yes but it’s a lifetime commitment that she and I made. We’ve had some hardships but we vowed to one another to see them through.
I was raised mainly by a single mom but my dad was still around so I was raised to be a gentleman so always wanted a wife n kids when I was young then that changed when I hit my 20’s don’t think I’ll ever get married lol
When we were younger I was infatuated with her, now that we’re older I’ve seen her faults, she has seen mine and I can’t live without her. We’re nearing the end, within 20 years left for us and I dread one of us having to deal with the other not being there.
Because her broken jagged parts fit mine perfectly. She sees in me all the amazing things I often refuse to see myself and pushes me to be the best version of myself that I can be.
Love is a choice, not a result of luckily aligned external factors (i.e. ‘destiny’). Developing a crush on someone else doesn’t mean you should leave your long-term partner and start over. My wife and I have both had multiple crushes since we got together, and we always told each other openly because we knew we agree on the ‘love is a choice’ thing. Starting from this axiom makes our relationship safe and simple. We keep track of each other’s changing preferences and outlooks on the world, constantly making small adjustments in how we communicate and what little things we do to make each other feel loved. This sounds utilitarian and un-romantic, and in a way it is, but the absolute certainty in that she will always stick with me no matter what is worth so much more than the feeling of infatuation and ‘butterflies in my stomach’ that a crush manifests as. It’s a much deeper, stronger bond of trust and unity. I’d never give that up for anything else, and I’m 100% sure she wouldn’t either.
Well, whatever happens, I know that I’m gonna need her in my life. In every life’s decisions I think of her, and I can’t do without her in my life. Is she perfect? Far from it, but she’s perfect for the human I am.
I don’t know really. Like I could give you all sorts of platitudes about love and soul mates, but the reality is just that regardless of anything going on or that happens, I can’t imagine a life without her. Even in the low points in our relationship, I’ve never wanted to not be with her.
Have a good history with her. If you don’t see yourselves being together forever then don’t get married. So if you’re getting married then know what you’re getting yourself into. That’s a good foundation right off the bat.
Understand you’re both individuals and nobody owns anybody. So good communication is highly important. Then find common interests and willingly support and commit to each other. You’re together to also live life and enjoy life together and not just to survive it.
Know that nobody is perfect and people lakes mistakes. As a result, be understanding and supportive of each other. Fill each other’s mistakes and back each other up.
If you can do all these and understand everything, communicate everything. Got anything wrong then raise it, set a plan and resolve the problem.
Rules, no hitting each other and don’t get into stupid arguments. Seek solutions when there’s problems to resolve it. Spice up life with travelling and dating and anything you guys enjoy. Keep this up and we can be together forever.
If you want to ask why my wife? Know that it takes bloody ages to find someone willing and able to mould each other into what each other likes and wants. Finding a new one makes you start from scratch which is a pain. So might as well fix the current problem instead of finding a new one. It’s much faster to fix the problem than to start from scratch.
Just curious as to why most of the answers here are along the lines of “she tolerates me and my multiple fuck ups and meets my needs and desires” and not what y’all love about your wives as people with individual characteristics and qualities that make you want to stay with them? Am I missing something??
I thought I’d see some shit like “I respect her, she’s smart” but it’s just what they do for you??
She’s my best friend. Besides that she’s lived up to her vows and far beyond. Not only did she absolutely step up and care for me at my sickest, she managed our entire world when I was incapable of doing my half. On top of everything, she donated 60% of her liver to me so I wouldn’t die and could recover to live a 99% normal life. There aren’t words to adequately describe my love for her.
Although we have some different interests, we don’t let that keep us apart. The things that we have in common, like enjoying good food, listening to music, and dancing, and our faith, help to keep us together.
She’s my best friend. No one understands me or gets my humour or my brain like she does. I can be myself 100% around her with zero judgement. Knowing that she loves me with her whole being and supports me. Plus she’s got a pretty nice butt.
I think men will stay married to their wife but will cheat on them instead of leaving them. Divorce cost allot of money, you will lose half, kids will be impacted etc.. which is why cheating is easier than divorce.
It jas been 10 years that she is tolerating my fuck ups and great days and bad weather. I never get bored talking to her about a range of topics from Quantum physics to color of flowers. And still thinking of her makes my heart warm and fuzzy.
I fell hard in love with her when were was 15, we’re now now 44, thankfully I’m still head over heels. It also helps that she is an absolute amazing women in everyway.
I always could be just myself. I was always a picky eater and my wife cooks really good. She always thinks of my eating habits when cooking and that’s something i really appreciate. We have so much insider jokes that only we or some of our friends get.
We laugh so much together since she got pregnant last november. I’m really looking forward to spend my life and raise our son together.
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There are various specific qualities and attributes that I love about her, but generally speaking, my wife is such a fun and interesting person to be around and there’s no way I’d want to lose that.
Because I said I would, and a man is only as powerful as his word. Also, I love my wife and we work together on making our marriage better every day to ensure that love doesn’t die.
When there is no other choice
Her big bahonkas
We love each other and I’m too old to start over
My wife is the greatest person in the world.
We genuinely love spending time together.
Movies, video games, books, anything that introduces new information or ideas into our lives, we love to share and discuss it. We make each other laugh all the time, we enjoy our intimacy whenever we can have it, and we’re awesome at communicating when problems arise.
She’s ride or die for me so I ride or die for her
When you realize the rarity of finding someone who is willing to stick it out with you for the long run, despite your fuck ups along the way, it not only makes you feel truly loved but also endlessly blessed to have someone so special in your life. I could probably have a couple dozen crazy flings, as could many men and women, but true, unconditional love is something far worth giving all of that nonsense up for, something that makes a life worthwhile.
Plus she has a really nice ass.
2 ways to a man’s heart. Feed him and fuck him.
I chose it. I said I would. That’s the end of it.
Feelings come and go. Even for long periods of time. Integrity is far more important than feelings.
It’s everything about her. She smells really nice too.
As much as a PITA my wife can be, I know she’s my ride or die.
my wife
The fact that she loved me so much to say yes to be married to me. The way she calls me her husband and looks at me with confidence and pure love. (Even though I struggle to see in myself what she does.)
People change yes but it’s a lifetime commitment that she and I made. We’ve had some hardships but we vowed to one another to see them through.
Because she kept talking about divorce, I will not let her have that happiness.
Forever? It’s just a fling, nothing serious
Lol
I’m here just to read all the comments, maybe I will learn something 🤪
I was raised mainly by a single mom but my dad was still around so I was raised to be a gentleman so always wanted a wife n kids when I was young then that changed when I hit my 20’s don’t think I’ll ever get married lol
Love and not being able to imagine life without her.
My wife walks on water and I live her to death. We’ve been through the highest highs and the lowest lows and she’s my ride or die partner.
Because I actually love the person I married
I’m an idiot and she tolerates it and I’ve waited for 20 years to get with her so no chance I’m gonna throw in the towel any time soon
When we were younger I was infatuated with her, now that we’re older I’ve seen her faults, she has seen mine and I can’t live without her. We’re nearing the end, within 20 years left for us and I dread one of us having to deal with the other not being there.
She’s my best friend and I don’t wanna lose my best friend I get to have occasional sexy time with her
A lot of people will answer she’s fun, interesting, hot but those aren’t really answers… a lot of women meet those criteria.
The real answer is that the woman meets his needs so specifically and perfectly that marrying someone else is not even an option.
I love her. I married her and I vowed to be by her side always no matter how bad or good things get
Cheaper to keep her
I gave her my word when I took those vows with God as my witness.
Because her broken jagged parts fit mine perfectly. She sees in me all the amazing things I often refuse to see myself and pushes me to be the best version of myself that I can be.
Because I love her.
She’s the best
I love her, I mean, really truly love her.
We share 3 children
Love is a choice, not a result of luckily aligned external factors (i.e. ‘destiny’). Developing a crush on someone else doesn’t mean you should leave your long-term partner and start over. My wife and I have both had multiple crushes since we got together, and we always told each other openly because we knew we agree on the ‘love is a choice’ thing. Starting from this axiom makes our relationship safe and simple. We keep track of each other’s changing preferences and outlooks on the world, constantly making small adjustments in how we communicate and what little things we do to make each other feel loved. This sounds utilitarian and un-romantic, and in a way it is, but the absolute certainty in that she will always stick with me no matter what is worth so much more than the feeling of infatuation and ‘butterflies in my stomach’ that a crush manifests as. It’s a much deeper, stronger bond of trust and unity. I’d never give that up for anything else, and I’m 100% sure she wouldn’t either.
Because we’re a team and she’s the greatest person I’ve ever met. Beautiful smart funny loves adventure and is alway up for what life brings us.
Well, whatever happens, I know that I’m gonna need her in my life. In every life’s decisions I think of her, and I can’t do without her in my life. Is she perfect? Far from it, but she’s perfect for the human I am.
I don’t know really. Like I could give you all sorts of platitudes about love and soul mates, but the reality is just that regardless of anything going on or that happens, I can’t imagine a life without her. Even in the low points in our relationship, I’ve never wanted to not be with her.
Have a good history with her. If you don’t see yourselves being together forever then don’t get married. So if you’re getting married then know what you’re getting yourself into. That’s a good foundation right off the bat.
Understand you’re both individuals and nobody owns anybody. So good communication is highly important. Then find common interests and willingly support and commit to each other. You’re together to also live life and enjoy life together and not just to survive it.
Know that nobody is perfect and people lakes mistakes. As a result, be understanding and supportive of each other. Fill each other’s mistakes and back each other up.
If you can do all these and understand everything, communicate everything. Got anything wrong then raise it, set a plan and resolve the problem.
Rules, no hitting each other and don’t get into stupid arguments. Seek solutions when there’s problems to resolve it. Spice up life with travelling and dating and anything you guys enjoy. Keep this up and we can be together forever.
If you want to ask why my wife? Know that it takes bloody ages to find someone willing and able to mould each other into what each other likes and wants. Finding a new one makes you start from scratch which is a pain. So might as well fix the current problem instead of finding a new one. It’s much faster to fix the problem than to start from scratch.
Just curious as to why most of the answers here are along the lines of “she tolerates me and my multiple fuck ups and meets my needs and desires” and not what y’all love about your wives as people with individual characteristics and qualities that make you want to stay with them? Am I missing something??
I thought I’d see some shit like “I respect her, she’s smart” but it’s just what they do for you??
She’s my best friend. Besides that she’s lived up to her vows and far beyond. Not only did she absolutely step up and care for me at my sickest, she managed our entire world when I was incapable of doing my half. On top of everything, she donated 60% of her liver to me so I wouldn’t die and could recover to live a 99% normal life. There aren’t words to adequately describe my love for her.
This thread is pretty depressing.
Nothing, getting a divorce (FINALLY). I tried and tried and tried after she went crazy, but I just can’t.
As simply as i can make it:
She’s my best friend.
I’m fat, ugly, and dumb, yet she still wants to stick around.
That counts for a lot. Possibly everything.
Although we have some different interests, we don’t let that keep us apart. The things that we have in common, like enjoying good food, listening to music, and dancing, and our faith, help to keep us together.
Read to my husband the question, he said “because she is the best human ever, what do you mean why?” 🤷♀️
Gotta love this man (which I do) ❤️.
Divorce court favoritism toward women.
She’s my best friend. No one understands me or gets my humour or my brain like she does. I can be myself 100% around her with zero judgement. Knowing that she loves me with her whole being and supports me. Plus she’s got a pretty nice butt.
Peace of mind
It’d be a waste of time to find someone that better paired with me
A strong feeling of just belonging together. That’s basically what love is I suppose.
I think men will stay married to their wife but will cheat on them instead of leaving them. Divorce cost allot of money, you will lose half, kids will be impacted etc.. which is why cheating is easier than divorce.
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It jas been 10 years that she is tolerating my fuck ups and great days and bad weather. I never get bored talking to her about a range of topics from Quantum physics to color of flowers. And still thinking of her makes my heart warm and fuzzy.
Plus, she has great boobs and ass.
I fell hard in love with her when were was 15, we’re now now 44, thankfully I’m still head over heels. It also helps that she is an absolute amazing women in everyway.
She just loves me the way i am.
I always could be just myself. I was always a picky eater and my wife cooks really good. She always thinks of my eating habits when cooking and that’s something i really appreciate. We have so much insider jokes that only we or some of our friends get.
We laugh so much together since she got pregnant last november. I’m really looking forward to spend my life and raise our son together.
I am really thankful for her.